Names are really hard for us - and DH and I do not tell anybody else in our family what we are thinking because we don't want to hear everyone's opinions (bad or good) and I think we are a little superstitious too. Plus, we like unique names - but not too unique - and I feel like everytime I start talking about a name I like, every single baby born all of a sudden has that name - as an example - A few years ago, we liked Aiden for a boy and Grace or Lily for a girl - and you know how popular those names are now- not that there is anything wrong with those names - but I don't want my kid to be one of 5 kids in their class with the same name - ykwim? So the second a name starts to be "popular" - it is out in my book...
We will try to do a family name again - our dd is Rosemary Florence (2 Great Grandmothers named Florence, one Great Grandmother Rose) - we also like to stick with kind of old-fashioned sounding names...
And the name has to be in a few songs - we are a very musical family (dh's job revolves around music) so we have a whole cd of songs with Rosie or Rose or Rosemary - so our next kid has to have the same opportunity...
And, I like there to be nicknames or options with names - rosemary could be rosie (her nickname now) romy, rory, rose, mary - you get the idea - I would like my kid to be able to adjust her name to fit her personality.
Oh - and I wouldn't mind another "natural" name - since Rosemary is a herb and plant, I would love to keep that theme kind of too - but not as important as the other criteria...
Pretty complicated huh?

Any suggestions would be welcomed!!!!