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post #1 of 9
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HI Ladies! It's been a while. I've been working on figuring out 2 kids, houscleaning, cooking, sleeping, and bookeeping all while keeping my sanity. It has gotten a lot better . The first couple of weeks having 2 kids under 2 was totally insane, but I think we are starting to get into a rhythm now. (whew ). Ok, so here are my discoveries....

Both DD's have had some skin trouble. DD1 had a bout with excema last year, and DD2 had really bad baby acne at about 2 weeks, coupled with cradle cap. So, the miracle cure I have found is: Burt's Bees Baby Bee Skin Creme
This stufff is so awesome. It cleared up ALL skin conditions within a day or less. Yay Burt's Bees!

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I just think this is the most miraculous thing. I'm sure some of you already know about this, but I had no idea and I am just beside myself here. Ok, I have a book called "The Portable Pediatrician"(not sure of the author's name right now). I know it sounds really clinical, but she tries hard to not be preachy, and she is a real advocate of breastfeeding & natural parenting. So I was reading the chapter on kids 2 weeks to 2 months and she suggests if you are interested in getting your children to go to bed at night without a huge struggle, to start getting them used to going to sleep on their own now. (instead of having to nurse themselves to sleep, being rocked to sleep, etc.) I personally believe in bedtime very strongly. I think it is really important to have some kid-free time each evening. To hang out with your spouse, read a book, or just breathe. It was a painful process borne out of ignorance to get DD1 to go to sleep on her own. Eventually though, she got to the point where we give lots of kisses, read a story, and she goes into her crib and usually falls right to sleep.(sometimes she needs to fill her teddy bear in on the days events, so she talks herself to sleep). Anyway, DD2 has been in the bed with us since birth. Monday night I set up her co-sleeper. I made sure she had a clean diaper on, and nursed her until she detached on her own. We were all in bed, and the lights were off so she knew it was bedtime. I put her into her co-sleeper awake and in about 15 minutes she was asleep. No crying or fussing at all. She did fidget quite a bit, but she does that all night long anyway. I did rest my hand on her belly so she was sure we were there, but took it off when she started to doze. Last night was the same thing...clean diaper, full tummy, in co-sleeper awake. She was asleep within 10 minutes...no fuss. And she isn't using a binky! I have to say we all slept really well all night long. She never woke up, not even when I got up to go to the restroom. I am just so amazed. I had no idea a baby 6 weeks old could just peacefully fall asleep on their own. She of course doesn't go to bed without us yet, but it seems like the transition will be much smoother this time. Plus when she does move to a crib she is sharing a room with her sister so she won't ever be alone at night. Now don't flame me because of this: ...I do love sleeping with my children. But I also love the whole family getting a good nights sleep. Which is hard to come by when you all sleep together in the same bed and you have a very fidgety family and everyone is constantly waking everyone else up. So for me this was very much a "Hallelujah" moment.
post #2 of 9
I've heard lots about BB apricot oil, but never the baby skin cream. Hmm... maybe I'll have to try some. Rhys' baby acne is out of control & the cradle cap, well it's not bad on his head, but his poor ears & forehead are sooooo flaky & scaley. Yuck...my poor little guy.
post #3 of 9
Elisabeth will lay there for a couple minutes (after nursing in bed) awake, but then start crying if I don't pick her up. So I don't think that would work for us

She used to be good about falling asleep after nursing, but now she is awake within a minute or two after. Blah!
post #4 of 9
thanks for posting!! i have been beside myself also trying to figure everything out with 2 kids (one just turned 2) so we are in the same boat. my new dd is very different than ds. she doesn't like to be put down and won't sleep very well without me and its driving me insane. not only do i not have any time alone but ds is getting very mad that i don't spend time with him.

last night i was just fed up and knew ayla was changed, full and comfortable and needed to go to sleep. i put her in the swing and she ended up going to sleep with me in the room also going to sleep. she woke up 1/2 an hour later but i nursed her back to sleep.

going to try doing this again tonight and hope that we can transition to this. ds never had these "problems" so thanks!!
post #5 of 9
Congrats on getting some sleep, and I must admit, I am green with envy.
Last night, baby J was up up up and we were/are so tired. This am, ds and I made a pact that we will rotate who gets to sleep during the night. Both of us had work/school today. Tomorrow I have clinicals at the hospital and about 5 hours of homework ahead. Anyway, enough griping and on with the show. Guess we'll flip a coin to see who gets to stay up this night.
post #6 of 9
i'm glad for you
cant even imagine having the energy to take care of more than one!! i dont know how my mom took care of three of us!! kudos to you and i'm sending good energy your way for your little ones to continue working on a good schedule with ya
post #7 of 9
I like the Burt's Bees lipbalm for me. Haven't tried too many of their other products.

Baby will usually go to sleep if we put her down in her basinnett drowsy. The crib, playpen basinnett, Bbay Papasan chair, however? Forget it. Usually at night, she's drowsy when we go to bed, and there hasn't been much of a struggle.
post #8 of 9
We love burt's bees!

We also recently started having her sleep seperately. She has taken her naps in the laundry basket (padded with quilts) for a while now, but I decided to take the plunge and do it at night also. This involves me staying awake during feedings so that I can put her back, though! She slept better apart and so did hubby and I, so it's worth the effort. Before she was down with us at 9:30ish, then awake at 11, 2:30, and with the alarm at 5. Sleeping apart she was up at 11, then slept all the way til 3:30. I'm hoping we can combine the feedings to just one at around 1 or 2, but we'll see.

She sleeps in the laundry basket in the port a crib, because I think she feels more secure in a smaller area.


Cara
post #9 of 9
Well, we went from her sleeping in the bassinet beside the bed to co-sleeping and we are sleeping better. I think she was getting cold in there. I was given this co-sleeper thingy and it works fine. Now, if we could just get the days and nights flip flopped! We are also taking turns. Dh gets up and changes her diaper and comforts her and if she needs to nurse he wakes me up. Yippie! Tonight's his night! Last night was mine.
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