We have no clue what middle name we are going to use.
Aidan is "James" after my dad.
Eli is "Joseph" after dh's grandpa.
So first of all, I would like to use a middle name that is "after" someone, because I think it would be strange for the other two to have meaning, and this one not to. The problem is, there really is no one else we want to name him after.
The next thought is to use something that starts with "J", to go along with the other two. Still, I would like to have something that has some kind of meaning to us. We are both drawing a total blank.
People have suggested using one of dh's names as a middle, but usually if you are going to do that, you do it with your first son. We have never been big on naming children after ourselves. I think at this point it would be weird.