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post #41 of 59
11/3/06 at 7:32pm
Love the pics!!

I wouldn't delete them. I would edit them so they didn't sound so perverted, but leave them there. Seeing those 2 ignorant comments makes the other comments sooo much more appropriate. I would, however, email them and ask that they not post there anymore.
post #42 of 59
11/3/06 at 7:57pm
:Puke :Puke :Puke :Puke

Delete it.... give no reaction at all, that's what they want.
I think those pix are beautiful and sweet.
post #43 of 59
11/3/06 at 8:02pm
Very sweet pics, not a nice comment :
post #44 of 59
11/3/06 at 8:10pm
Your pics are gorgeous!
post #45 of 59
11/3/06 at 8:19pm
I would delete the one by "louisa" -- just because sexual nonsense like that has no business in a family-friendly context. If it were just a disparaging comment, I'd leave it to showcase his/her ignorance, but it's more than that.
post #46 of 59
11/3/06 at 9:16pm
Hey girl


I'm so sorry someone was so nasty to you, especially something that you hold so dear to your heart. You are doing everything that is right by your girls!!
post #47 of 59
11/3/06 at 9:19pm
It's your page. If it makes you feel stronger to leave it, then leave it. If it bugs you to see it, then delete it.

I have a blog. I keep my snipes intact because they make me feel stronger instead of weaker. But I'm a bit unusual in that respect.
post #48 of 59
11/3/06 at 11:36pm
Thread Starter 
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I cannot express in words how much all of your comments mean to me.

I am still undecided about the rude comments, though. Part of me wants to remove them, but after all of your wonderful words, I truly feel that the strength of our numbers diminishes their pathetic impact and makes them seem like the trivial empty words that they really are.

You have all given me a wonderful case of the warm fuzzies.
post #49 of 59
11/4/06 at 12:03am
I think your pics are precious and absolutely GORGEOUS! There is not one shot of me nursing where I look anything remotely as beautiful at you.

As for the comments...the one from "Louisa" is totally sick, I think you should get rid of it ASAP. Gave me the willies...

What's up with being accused of child abuse? : Huh? That one needs some serious rebuttals.
post #50 of 59
11/4/06 at 12:18am
Your pictures are gorgeous! I love the one of you nursing both children. You all look so peaceful.

I'd delete the ugly, disgusting comments- if for no other reason, to keep the site family-friendly. You never know when someone's child might be looking/reading over their shoulder. Nobody would expect such comments to be there. Also, I don't know if search engines generally pick up on text, but if one did, the comments might draw some really sick people to your page.
post #51 of 59
11/4/06 at 1:25am
What was Lousia's comment supposed to mean. I felt that a lil odd.
post #52 of 59
11/4/06 at 8:43am
Thread Starter 
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mama2Bug View Post
Your pictures are gorgeous! I love the one of you nursing both children. You all look so peaceful.

I'd delete the ugly, disgusting comments- if for no other reason, to keep the site family-friendly. You never know when someone's child might be looking/reading over their shoulder. Nobody would expect such comments to be there. Also, I don't know if search engines generally pick up on text, but if one did, the comments might draw some really sick people to your page.
Very, very good point. Thank you. The last think I would want would be for a child to see the pictures and read those misguided comments. I'd rather the child read all the wonderful things from all of you.
post #53 of 59
11/4/06 at 2:48pm

devil's advocate?

while i agree whole-heartedly that your pics are as beautiful, and precious as precious can be, displaying such images in a public domian will always incite some negative comments. it is the nature of people, and an easy way for those who are inclined that way to belittle others.

i would never link pics of my nursing toddler on this site. i am a member of a small, private online community which contains an even smaller, more private picture forum. it is only there that i feel comfortable sharing my child with others, no-one has a hidden agenda and we always leave nothing but positive comments.

i am sorry you were made to feel bad, the only way to ensure it will never happen again is to take the pictures down

post #54 of 59
11/5/06 at 4:12pm
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Originally Posted by Mama Poot View Post
OMG!!!! : Horrible. Is there somewhere you can report that??
:

they must have UA guidelines also, no?
post #55 of 59
11/8/06 at 11:09am
Thread Starter 
Thank you all once again. I am still receiving a lot of sick comments, but I am hiding them from public view. I have also installed private tracker on my page in case anyone gets too threatening (although I don't see that happening).

The support has really meant a lot to me.
post #56 of 59
11/8/06 at 11:10am
Thread Starter 
Quote:
Originally Posted by vanessab23 View Post
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they must have UA guidelines also, no?

Nope. No guidelines. :
post #57 of 59
12/5/06 at 2:24am
I love the pics! (I noticed you used a Canon )

Jordan is so cute with the marker lines all over her stomach.

~Nay
post #58 of 59
12/5/06 at 3:23am
I love the pictures.

But I had to laugh at the one of Jordan - she has ink all over her! Just like my little one!!!

Beautiful pictures!
post #59 of 59
12/5/06 at 2:13pm
Those are beautiful!
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