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Goodbye...Back to the Drawing Board for Me

post #1 of 34
Thread Starter 
Well, I never thought I would be starting a thread like this one. However, yesterday I miscarried. I had bleeding all weekend and I think I just knew that the pregnancy was over, so I'm finding that I had a little preparation, mentally, and I'm coping pretty well, considering the circumstances. DH, on the other hand, says it feels like "being punched in the gut" so I feel bad for him. The poor partner, all he can do thru pregnancy, delivery, and bad news like this, is to be a bystander and try to be supportive. That can't be easy. Anyhow, the u/s showed that the m/c was complete so I'm relieved that a d&c is not necessary. I appreciate having been a part of this DDC for a while. Don't worry, I'll be back in a new DDC in a few months, I'm sure of that. Best wishes to all of you!
post #2 of 34
Oh, Rosie, I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
post #3 of 34
I'm so sorry. It sounds like you are in a good place, continue to take good care of yourself and your family.
post #4 of 34
So Sorry! I am glad that you are thinking positive!
post #5 of 34
I'm so sorry for your loss, and for your DH too. SO many times, their grief is NEVER acknowledged by those around you, like they have no feelings. That was my DH's experience; a coworker gave him a card the last time, and it was a huge healing thing for him to know this person actually cared.

<<hugs>> to you all..... will you please pop in and let us know if you end up on another DDC??
post #6 of 34
I'm so sorry for your loss. Tell your DH we are all thinking of him as well. It must be really hard for him. Like songbird said, DH's often get overlooked during times like this. Take good care of yourself
post #7 of 34
I'm so sorry for your loss.
post #8 of 34
I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm glad to hear you're coping well. Best of luck to you!
post #9 of 34
i'm so sorry for you and your dh glad you don't have to have a d&c though.
post #10 of 34
Oh Honey and one for your husband
I am so sorry to hear the bad news... I'll be looking for you name in the future due date clubs... take good care of youself.
post #11 of 34
I'm so sorry to hear your news. Sending love to you and your DH! xo
post #12 of 34
Thread Starter 
Thanks for your support, everyone. It is amazing to me that complete strangers can reach out and be so caring. I appreciate it.

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Originally Posted by SongbirdSinging View Post
<<hugs>> to you all..... will you please pop in and let us know if you end up on another DDC??
Yep, I'll let you know WHEN I end up on another DDC. (I guess I'm treading that fine line between being cocky and confident, but with both my pgcies we conceived on the first cycle trying, so I have every reason to believe I'll be pg again soon (after waiting 1 mo per CNM's suggestion). Thanks again and best wishes to you all!
post #13 of 34
I'm very sorry
post #14 of 34
Good luck, and I hope I will be joining you on another DDB soon too
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post #16 of 34
Hugs to you mama, and good luck trying again.
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post #18 of 34
sorry you are going through this for you and your dh.
hope you are in another ddc soon
post #19 of 34
I am sorry *hugs*
Sending you and your dh love
post #20 of 34
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