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And she is reported to have questioned why Startforth Morritt Memorial School, has lessons in breastfeeding, saying "it's disgusting".
post #2 of 16
Wow - issues, much?
post #3 of 16
I've had an idea of sorts to implement a childbirth/breastfeeding class for high schools. The only childbirth "education" I received in high school was an old video of some poor woman giving birth in a hospital. That was it. Most of the emphasis was on STD's and birth control- nothing about what happens when you actually get pregnant and have the baby!!!!!! Because we just can't have that
post #4 of 16
Guilt? How much would you bet that had that boy attended the lessons that he'd've come home and asked him mum if she breastfed him? Children do that sort of thing. How much would we bet that she'd have to answer "no" and not have a medical reason why she couldn't?
post #5 of 16
to the UK for teaching primary school kids about breast feeding.
post #6 of 16
Did anyone else notice the comment form the Association of Breastfeeding Mothers (ABM) - kinda unfortunate acronym.......

But yeah, ISSUES. Gotta feel sorry for that mother don't you???? And her kids.
post #7 of 16
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Originally Posted by Meiri View Post
Guilt? How much would you bet that had that boy attended the lessons that he'd've come home and asked him mum if she breastfed him? Children do that sort of thing. How much would we bet that she'd have to answer "no" and not have a medical reason why she couldn't?
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I think its brilliant that children are being tought about breastfeeding hopefully it will lead to more breastfeeding mums when there all grown up and have babies
post #8 of 16
When I was 7 I hadn't had "The Talk" with my mom yet. Maybe she just doens't want the school to take over her parenting duties. (My mom waited until I asked where babies came from, so maybe that's what this mom is saying, why make them learn about childbirth if they're too young to even ask about it?) The "digusting" comment is over the top but maybe she felt that was just one more thing they were doing to undermine her as a mother. Okay, flame away...
post #9 of 16
7 is not too young to ask about "it", and if this mom was concerned about teaching her son about these issues, then she should have started before he was in school, when he'd be around other kids, who do talk. There is no one The Talk, it's an ongoing discussion, at least in all the families we know. As children get older, you can go into more detail. DD was in an age appropriate "sex ed" course a couple of years ago, when she was 5. We left the actuall sex act details for the parents to address when the child asked, but the course otherwise covered all the ways families are formed, the different kinds of families, and how babies grow before being born. After the course, DD came to me with one of our books, turned to The Page, and asked me to read it. That was at 5. Clearly 7 is not too early if the issues are addressed in an age appropriate manner.

I think it's wonderful that they are starting early on teaching about these issues. I doubt very much that they're going into "tab P goes into slot V..." detail in the classroom.
post #10 of 16
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Originally Posted by Meiri View Post
7 is not too young to ask about "it", and if this mom was concerned about teaching her son about these issues, then she should have started before he was in school, when he'd be around other kids, who do talk. There is no one The Talk, it's an ongoing discussion, at least in all the families we know. As children get older, you can go into more detail. DD was in an age appropriate "sex ed" course a couple of years ago, when she was 5. We left the actuall sex act details for the parents to address when the child asked, but the course otherwise covered all the ways families are formed, the different kinds of families, and how babies grow before being born. After the course, DD came to me with one of our books, turned to The Page, and asked me to read it. That was at 5. Clearly 7 is not too early if the issues are addressed in an age appropriate manner.

I think it's wonderful that they are starting early on teaching about these issues. I doubt very much that they're going into "tab P goes into slot V..." detail in the classroom.
When I said "they," I really meant "he," her kid in particular. If she thinks HER kid is too young, that's her business.
post #11 of 16
I'm impressed that the schools in the UK are teaching breastfeeding. I think the closest any of my classes in the states came was to mention milk ducts in the anatomy/physiology of the breast in science classes. If more kids were taught young here maybe we would have higher breastfeeding rates and the US wouldn't have one of the worst infant mortality rates of any industrialized nation....

And I don't get why so many folks think it is "disgusting" - there must be some guilt issues involved... folks see more boob on late night tv...
post #12 of 16
How do I sign my kid up for that class? DANG IT!!! I live in the Similac capital of the world, never happen here.

That mom has MAJOR issues!!
post #13 of 16
Sorry just curious why ABM is an unfortunate acronym? I'm a UK Mummy..
post #14 of 16
ABM - sometimes used for "artificial baby milk" aka formula.
post #15 of 16
Kudos to the school for standing it's ground!
post #16 of 16
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Originally Posted by eepster
to the UK for teaching primary school kids about breast feeding.
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And to the mother for declaring breastfeeding to be disgusting!
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