
HI STEPH!!
belly rubs to you and congrats!!
Sounds like Rhys and Rich are on a similar stage.
DS (4.5) plays around with various cdRoms as well as Starfall. We also read repetitive stories and allow him the pleasure of reading to us (even though we know it's memorized, he's still following along the words with his eyes). Oh and we have the set of LeapFrog DVD’s which he loves to watch. Along with all that, we also have other videos that we either put on closed caption or have the words highlighted on the bottom of the screen for him to follow along if he desires. Oh and we have a couple of board games/puzzles which address putting words together with connected sounds.
As it is, there are several words that ds can read in any book. He also knows how to sound out letter by letter, but I'm trying to show him a better way than sounding out that way. Instead I’m showing him how to sound out syllable to syllable, makes it easier to put a word together and less frustrating or boring for him.
I wouldn’t pursue anything unless he asked me to help him learn something. He continuously tells me he wants to learn to read, so I provide him the resources and opportunities and allow him to make the call when and how much of what he’s in the mood for.