first of all a great big 
! we love ya.
i am so sorry you don't have any help. it is so hard sometimes i know. in the beginning i felt so bad because i didn't feel very attached to her right away and i felt terrible because it took so long for my milk to come in i would have to give her a bottle just so she would have something in her stomach. thankfully my milk is very much in.
i have the opposite problem with help. we are living with my inlaws and they do way too much. they are trying to give her fruits alreay a few weeks ago and she is 14 weeks right now. they take her out of the room and into their own room without asking. i'll put her down with dh or in her swing while i go the bath room and she will be gone somewhere else cause they took her. one time they were holding and playing with her i went in another room came back and they were gone . they took her in the car to go see christmas lights without even asking me!!! my FIL putts her diapers on backwards. my MIL doesn't listen to me when i tell her not to feed her baby food. they try to give her bottles just so they don't have to give her back to me! well they only did that 2wice. and they change her outfit if i put her in a dress because MIL thinks that if she is in frilly tights they are uncomfortable for dd just becuause she doesn't like to wear panty hose herself. whats up with that.
but anyways my point is we all have trouble. try not to feel down about it. ur dc just loves you and needs you. there are times when i just want dd to go to sleep or be happy having tummy time so i can do something i want to do. i get frustrated too.
we all do
and we all love you.
! we love ya.i am so sorry you don't have any help. it is so hard sometimes i know. in the beginning i felt so bad because i didn't feel very attached to her right away and i felt terrible because it took so long for my milk to come in i would have to give her a bottle just so she would have something in her stomach. thankfully my milk is very much in.
i have the opposite problem with help. we are living with my inlaws and they do way too much. they are trying to give her fruits alreay a few weeks ago and she is 14 weeks right now. they take her out of the room and into their own room without asking. i'll put her down with dh or in her swing while i go the bath room and she will be gone somewhere else cause they took her. one time they were holding and playing with her i went in another room came back and they were gone . they took her in the car to go see christmas lights without even asking me!!! my FIL putts her diapers on backwards. my MIL doesn't listen to me when i tell her not to feed her baby food. they try to give her bottles just so they don't have to give her back to me! well they only did that 2wice. and they change her outfit if i put her in a dress because MIL thinks that if she is in frilly tights they are uncomfortable for dd just becuause she doesn't like to wear panty hose herself. whats up with that.
but anyways my point is we all have trouble. try not to feel down about it. ur dc just loves you and needs you. there are times when i just want dd to go to sleep or be happy having tummy time so i can do something i want to do. i get frustrated too.
we all do
and we all love you.
