i got invited to a friend's baby shower and i'm not sure how much is the "going rate" on how much to spend. i'm not super close to her or anything. i see her maybe once a month or 2 and its usually when a group of us hang out. neither of us really call each other just out of the blue. her dh and my dh have been friends for about 15 years. they are having twin boys, and these are their 1st kids. are you supposed to spend more because they're having twins? i just dont want to look cheap. thanks.
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11/22/06 at 8:05pm