I cross posted here and single parenting.
Hi Mamas,
I need some support.
I just received the WORST court evaluation from a court appointed evaluator ever (the SIXTH). I have sole/sole custody. The evaluation is about parenting time. The evaluator ignored the verbal abuse issues I deal with weekly. He ignored tha my parental role is undermined and I'm disparaged consistently infront of my child. I've pleaded for help with the threats and abuse I deal with in every interaction I have with the dad. I asked for help initiating email communications. I was ignored. The evaluator mis-quotes me four times in this eval., in big ways, and paints me out to be a weirdo because of my holistic lifestyle. etc...etc...etc... The worst thing is that he expanded the schedule more than the ex was even asking for. My son is almost 10, and made his wishes clear to the evaluator that he doesn't want the expansion.
I'm just so deeply tapped out. It takes me back to the other times of trauma. The reduced enjoyment of our lives because of this court stuff is getting to me on a soul level today. I flashback and feel physically what has happened in the past. The exes have never had to be accountable for thier actions in any real or restorative way. It's Thanksgiving tomorrow, and I want to count my blessings...
Hi Mamas,
I need some support.
I just received the WORST court evaluation from a court appointed evaluator ever (the SIXTH). I have sole/sole custody. The evaluation is about parenting time. The evaluator ignored the verbal abuse issues I deal with weekly. He ignored tha my parental role is undermined and I'm disparaged consistently infront of my child. I've pleaded for help with the threats and abuse I deal with in every interaction I have with the dad. I asked for help initiating email communications. I was ignored. The evaluator mis-quotes me four times in this eval., in big ways, and paints me out to be a weirdo because of my holistic lifestyle. etc...etc...etc... The worst thing is that he expanded the schedule more than the ex was even asking for. My son is almost 10, and made his wishes clear to the evaluator that he doesn't want the expansion.
I'm just so deeply tapped out. It takes me back to the other times of trauma. The reduced enjoyment of our lives because of this court stuff is getting to me on a soul level today. I flashback and feel physically what has happened in the past. The exes have never had to be accountable for thier actions in any real or restorative way. It's Thanksgiving tomorrow, and I want to count my blessings...
