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Originally Posted by Heavenly 
"I luckily had a full supply (and am tandem nursing two!) but it was only possible because of the encouragement and resources i found on bfar.org and Diane West's book "Defining your Own Success"
I just wanted to comment on this. I had the book and was on the bfar list and tried every galactogogue possible but I still could not have a full supply. It was just not possible for me. I am not saying its not great that you had a full supply, just saying sometimes you can know everything about it (which I did and do) but your body is not capable of producing more.
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Oh, absolutely! I am sorry if my post seemed to imply otherwise.
The vast majority of bfar moms must supplement. Anecdotally, it seems approximately 30% of moms have full supply (there is no real research on this, the number is just based on various polls done on bfar.org). That means 70% have less than full supply.
The reality I had to come to grips with before I had ds1 was that 1. I would most likely have to supplement 2. but I would still be able to breastfeed, and 3. we wouldn't know how much supplement we would need until after the birth. This was a hard fact for me to deal with but I am very happy I did accept it before the baby was born. I was then in a mental place where I was prepared to fight for as much breastmilk as I could give.
We went to the hospital with an SNS, rented pump, and a plan. We knew about counting wet diapers and watching his weight. I knew I had to nurse round the clock and get a great latch. I had fenugreek and information on DPD on hand and weekly visits to my LC.
After several pretty intense weeks, it turned out I had a full supply. I am lucky and unusual. Both my LC and an LC friend had never ever met a bfar mom with a full supply before.
To reiterate what PPs have said, don't let anyone tell you that you can or can't breastfeed or what your supply will or won't be. You won't know until you are there. But don't make having a fully supply the definition of success - giving your baby as much breast milk as possible is important enough to fight for, even if supplementation is a reality for you.
Siobhan