I Can't Do This Any More!!!!!!!!!

[Jenny_Jane]

I JUST CANT!!!!!!!! why did he have to go to war WHY? acting happy how do u live without the love of your life? how do i carry a child OUR child without him? staying happy for my dds because all i do is hear them cry?!?!? Why after 3 monthes can i not keep the promice to him i would move on. EVERY ONE SAID IT WAS HIS TIME. NO ITS NOT NO ITS NOT. HOW CAN IT BE HIS TIME WE HAVE A CHILD ON THE WAY AND CHILDREN! i need him. thanks giving was just a bunch of tears and a turkey how do i get through the rest of my life? raising my our children without him? please help me i just cant do this anymore.


Nicole

[oliversmum2000]

i cannot possibly imagine how you feel, it must be so hard feeling you have to be so strong for your babies.

plesse let it all out whenever you need to.

i am sure your dh was an amazing man.

[rachelle-a-tron]

((((MAMA))))

Sending you peace & love...

[wonderfulmom]

Hugs to you- I am so sorry about your dh. I think the way you go on is you keep getting out of bed every morning- because your children love you and need you. You keep going through the motions of living and doing what needs to be done each day, for them- if not for yourself. Eventually it will get easier, but it will not be the way you planned.

[dziejen]

Oh mama, you must be hurting so badly. I am so sorry. 3 months is not a lot of time...please be gentle with yourself. The fact that you were able to have Thanksgiving at all is remarkable. I don't have any wise words or anything to take the pain away but know that you are in my thoughts. I think time will bring healing but it may take a very long time. You will never forget your love for him or how much you miss him but it will get easier to get through each day. One day at a time seems like too much but maybe taking things minute by minute and hour by hour will help. I hope that you have support near to you and your girls. Much love to you.

[LLobsterTV]

I'm so sorry for your loss, mama. Life is not fair! Is the military offering any counseling for you and your precious daughters? The thing about grief is that it sets its own timeline. I wish there was a way to turn back time and bring your husband back, and I wish there was a way to turn off the hurt.

Your husband is a hero, and I thank him for my freedom.

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[Quaniliaz]

I am so sorry for what you are going through. I just can't imagine the pain.

It is okay to be sad and angry even if he died nobly and everyone you know says it was "his time". It isn't fair. And you don't have to move on yet - I think it is perfectly ok to give yourself room to feel exactly as you are feeling.

I wish there were a way everything could be better for you and your family.

[PixelDust]

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's so fresh, and the holidays are hard. You have a right to grieve; don't let anyone tell you differently. It's never the right time to lose someone we love.

[Mamatohaleybug]

I'm so sorry! I can't even imagine how you are feeling and how you get up each day and keep on going.

Warm hugs!

[Lucky Charm]

[crazycandigirl]

I am so sorry. You are allowed to be sad, in fact you should still be at this point. You should take as much time as you need to deal with this. Seek out the help and suport of those around you. I hope that things get a little better for you soon.

[Summerland]

im so sorry

[Ambrose]

The holidays are hard, this was the first thanksgiving without my son. It is very very hard.

Please give yourself time.

[TRIBE]

[bobica]

i'm so sorry

[Summertime Mommy]

[shelbean91]

I'm so sorry.

[2crazykids]

I cannot imagine your pain. Please know that he's with you always.Peace.

[Shiloh]

how insensitive to say it was his time, I read Rabbi Shmuleys book on 10 conversations to have with your kids he talks about that type of statement and how god wants you to have a real relationship with him, that you are allowed to be angry, to question why if god can do anything how you feel so let down.

http://www.beliefnet.com/story/87/story_8793_1.html

I pray that you will find more supportive people.
and that those who suffer foot in mouth disease will stay away.

[ankh]

s I'm so sorry.