I Can't Do This Any More!!!!!!!!! - Page 3

[MommaMoo]

I am so, so sorry for your loss. People can say some very insensitive things to a grieving person. Saying it was your DH's "time" is an awful thing to say. How on earth is that supposed to help you? This website has support groups for people who have experienced various types of losses http://griefnet.org/
Please take care of yourself, and ask others to take care of you, too. You are in the thoughts of many of us.

[MommaMoo]

I don't know how old your dd's are, but here is a link on how to help kids deal with death http://www.hospicenet.org/html/children.html
And this is a chart which describes what children understand about death at different ages
http://dying.about.com/gi/dynamic/of...rensgrief.html

Again, I'm so very sorry

[momma of monkeys]

Oh momma.......s

[Spark]

Sending love.

[mamabearsoblessed]

Oh Mama~ many to you and your Babies. I cannot imagine what you are living right now. I am so, so sorry you have lost your dear husband.

[Mamma Mia]

(((((hugs)))))

I can't imagine anyone being ready to "move on" at this early stage.

I am 5 years deep into grief and it took me over a year to "move on" and when I did it was too soon and I was depressed because I was ignoring my grief and came to be barely able to function.

It's okay for you to experience grief-- I mean, really experience. Feel everything, have a hard time with normal life. That is normal and healthy and necessary. Give yourself the love and space that you need to get through this on your *own* time. We are all here for you as well.

[Emilie]

Thinking of you.....

[a~...Mamacitaa~...]

i want to say how sry i am .... from one military wife to the next... Your husband was a strong and brave man.... im soo very sry for you and your DD's loss.. plz feel free to Pm me if you ever need someone to talk to .... you are in my prayers