Repromed, Can-Am and Xytex are also the three we found, FTMpapa, and I did end up writing to them all and enquiring about the shipping stuff. Same findings as you - no shipping to anyone but a Dr. Good times. I'm actually not that upset because I kind of want to be agressive with this, with stims and possibly a trigger. We'll see.
Dh seems to have had a bit of a crisis, which has put all this on hold. Plus, it turns out that neither of the two drs here who used to deal with AI still offer that service. We've moved on to OBs, and hope they might be able to help, if dh decides that he's still good to go. Ah, the NEVER-ENDING rollercoaster!!
Good luck, FTMpapa. Are you using a clinic? (we were using TCART before we moved from ON to middle of the frozen nowhere).