New here but feel the need to vent a bit...
I'm with a new partner who's circed. The first time we had sex I noticed his scar...middle of the shaft, prominant, and very uneven on the underside. Instantly I felt such sorrow for him, knowing the pain it caused as a baby, what was taken away from him (and his partners), and how it made for a situation where he's sure his status is the norm. I've never been with an intact guy, so I have nothing to compare this to, but it seems so obvious when discussing his sensitivity (or lack of) that being circed affects his sexual experiences to a great degree. But, he knows no differnet so...
. We've been going out for a few months now and I recently began to discuss his circ, ever so careful to be sensitive and not judgmental about his penis, and it's intersting to see first hand how the ideas of 'well, I'm circed and I'm okay!' and 'why wouldn't a baby be circed?' form. He's seen the Penn & Teller Bull&%)( episode and it seemed to open his eyes to the fact of pain, lack of supporting evidence, and restoration but he still thinks that RIC is acceptable because 'well, it hurts, and if it's going to be done then it should be done for that person as a baby because who'd want to have it done as an adult!' 
I softly brought up restoration, and he said he'd do it if it was something I wanted...but that's missing the point that I want HIM to want it. So, I dropped the issue.
I guess my issue is just the sorrow I feel for him when I see his scarring and think of him as a helpless babe.
Anyone else with circed partners who are trying to come across delicate but still trying to convince DP about what they are missing?
I'm with a new partner who's circed. The first time we had sex I noticed his scar...middle of the shaft, prominant, and very uneven on the underside. Instantly I felt such sorrow for him, knowing the pain it caused as a baby, what was taken away from him (and his partners), and how it made for a situation where he's sure his status is the norm. I've never been with an intact guy, so I have nothing to compare this to, but it seems so obvious when discussing his sensitivity (or lack of) that being circed affects his sexual experiences to a great degree. But, he knows no differnet so...
. We've been going out for a few months now and I recently began to discuss his circ, ever so careful to be sensitive and not judgmental about his penis, and it's intersting to see first hand how the ideas of 'well, I'm circed and I'm okay!' and 'why wouldn't a baby be circed?' form. He's seen the Penn & Teller Bull&%)( episode and it seemed to open his eyes to the fact of pain, lack of supporting evidence, and restoration but he still thinks that RIC is acceptable because 'well, it hurts, and if it's going to be done then it should be done for that person as a baby because who'd want to have it done as an adult!' I softly brought up restoration, and he said he'd do it if it was something I wanted...but that's missing the point that I want HIM to want it. So, I dropped the issue.
I guess my issue is just the sorrow I feel for him when I see his scarring and think of him as a helpless babe.
Anyone else with circed partners who are trying to come across delicate but still trying to convince DP about what they are missing?
I am intrested to know the negatives and benefits.
There is a pretty obvious scar on the foreskin from this, and he said it bled like crazy and should have gotten stitched up, but MIL did not take him to get it stitched. I think I know why- they probably would have just circ'd him. 
: So go MIL for not letting that happen!! I do feel terrible for all circ'd guys out there. 
