Wow. Can I point you *again* to your own sig line?
But thanks for referring to my concept of birth as "a series of bizarre statements."
But thanks for referring to my concept of birth as "a series of bizarre statements."
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also, isn't it possible for a woman to see birth as a 'female act' and a 'sexual act' and a 'spiritual act' and a 'family act' and a 'primal act' and a myriad of other types and kinds of 'acts' all at once?
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For example, if birth is sexual because it is part of the procreational nature of sex, doesn't that rather leave homosexual sex out in the cold?
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| I just think that to use the whole "birth is a sexual act" argument to explain UC is oversimplistic. For example, if/when I UC, I will not want my DH present. Depending on various circumstances (mostly the position of the baby) I might want a female friend present. Most likely I'd be alone. Does this make birth akin to masturbation? |
| Birth, in a way, creates a disunity as the baby seperates from the mother for the first time. |
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no, it wasn't your concept of birth that is a 'series of bizarre statements' but that the statements didn't fit the point--and that was bizarre.
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also, don't assume that i'm not at peace when i respond to your posts. ![]() |

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I don't think that midwives would be out of a job. I think there are still women who are not "there" in their journey yet and need to have support for their choices in order to get "there". That's, in my eyes, what midwives are for.
There are quite a few clients that I've had that have either went off on their own after letting me go to have UC births or have birthed UC after a homebirth with me in attendance. I'm not worried about losing my work, believe me. I've always said that if 90% of the world was birthing unhindered, gentle, unattended then I'd be happy working at our local health food store. It's not about DOING midwifery - it's about changing the transition of birth for women, babies and families. If more people chose to freebirth then that would mean a much happier, loving, gentle planet, wouldn't it? Who wouldn't want that?? |


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