Ok, all you knowledgable mamas, I don't even have the terminology to ask this question, so I really need some help! haha.
Dh has been working for the most unethical people on the planet, has found a new job, and is already in the new city, working at the new job, while I deal with packing, moving and all the little details of such things. Basically, dh hasn't been paid for the full month of September and part of November, and
bosses are threatening to simply not pay him at all. This is all complicated by the fact that there was no signed contract for that last month, only a verbal agreement. Anyway, dh has repeatedly called, emailed and left messages at their office to no avail. He is now four provinces away, and I am stalking them. I went to the office today and they refused to open the door, pretended they weren't there, yadda, yadda. (ok, how do people become grown ups and still think this is acceptable behaviour?!?!) Anyway, my plan is to simply walk in and very calmly state that I am there to pick up dh's pay cheque and then to not leave until they get sick of me and give it to me. The thing is, we're pretty sure that if they do write him a cheque, it will bounce. So, is there a way to put some sort of hold on it, so that as the funds go into their account, we will get the money? Any other alternatives you can think of?
I have an uncle who is a supreme court judge, and I am tempted to ask him to write a letter for us, thinking that the legalese and postition might scare them into paying up, but I hesitate to contact him about it because I don't know if that is ethical for him and I don't want to put him in that situation. Plus, legally, I don't think we have a case at all due to the unsigned contract. But, ethically, they just need to pay him the pitiful salary they owe him. Help?
TIA
Katia
Dh has been working for the most unethical people on the planet, has found a new job, and is already in the new city, working at the new job, while I deal with packing, moving and all the little details of such things. Basically, dh hasn't been paid for the full month of September and part of November, and
bosses are threatening to simply not pay him at all. This is all complicated by the fact that there was no signed contract for that last month, only a verbal agreement. Anyway, dh has repeatedly called, emailed and left messages at their office to no avail. He is now four provinces away, and I am stalking them. I went to the office today and they refused to open the door, pretended they weren't there, yadda, yadda. (ok, how do people become grown ups and still think this is acceptable behaviour?!?!) Anyway, my plan is to simply walk in and very calmly state that I am there to pick up dh's pay cheque and then to not leave until they get sick of me and give it to me. The thing is, we're pretty sure that if they do write him a cheque, it will bounce. So, is there a way to put some sort of hold on it, so that as the funds go into their account, we will get the money? Any other alternatives you can think of?I have an uncle who is a supreme court judge, and I am tempted to ask him to write a letter for us, thinking that the legalese and postition might scare them into paying up, but I hesitate to contact him about it because I don't know if that is ethical for him and I don't want to put him in that situation. Plus, legally, I don't think we have a case at all due to the unsigned contract. But, ethically, they just need to pay him the pitiful salary they owe him. Help?
TIA
Katia














