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| As opposed to the system in the US where women *don't* have to resort to extremes to be "permitted" to make choices about the way they birth? I think it's about time physiologically normal birth is the standard and for the people who want interventions to have to jump through hoops. |

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Sapphire, I didn't advocate the current U.S. system. I just as strongly feel that women should be free to make birth choices in the U.S., whether that is an epidural or no epidural, fetal monitoring or no fetal monitoring, homebirthing midwife, UC, etc. I am currently involved (in a volunteer capacity) in the slow process of attempting to legalize lay midwifery in my state. I also stated in my post that I thought women seeking something extreme, like elective c/s, should need to jump through a few hoops (by showing they're educated about the risks and have chosen anyway, for xxxx reason).
And I absolutely agree with you that physiologically normal birth should be the "standard." But I don't think we should eliminate the other options available to women. Personally, having experienced birth, I would call my NCB "horrible." It was great for about 12 hours, then excruciatingly painful for the next 8 hours. I can understand why some women felt the availablility of analgesia like epidurals during labor was a positive achievement for the women's liberation movement. (I'm planning NCB, hopefully homebirth, for next time, despite not having a great experience with it.)
That being said, I believe the current medicalization of birth disempowers women to become educated and make choices. Instead, your OB will "take care of you" and you have "nothing to worry about" because your OB is so "wonderful." But forcing women to have unwanted unmedicated natural births is not, in my opinion, the way to achieve a more natural birth standard.
I myself am in a difficult situation because my state currently has only 3 practicing, legal homebirth midwives. I ended up with a UC for my first birth because of this (we transferred to the hospital at 19+hrs labor). I consider that resorting to extreme measures to avoid a bad hospital scenario. And I am thoroughly disgusted that I face the same choices for my next birth.
That does not, however, mean that I feel we should deny choice to any woman, just because after having educated myself I choose homebirth. Most of us here choose homebirth if we can. But I feel that women can reasonably come out on the other side and choose hospital birth and even elective c/s. If she has thoughtfully and intelligently obtained information and made her decision, that woman's decision should be respected.
Just as unnecessary c/s should not be foisted on women seeking NCB by unsupportive providers and hospital policies, so should vaginal birth not be imposed on those women who seek the opposite experience. I feel that informed choice is valid, whether I agree with the specific choice or not. (That is a broad statement and meant to apply to birth and reasonable people, not to anything/everything medical or to people with diminished capacity, etc.)
I think anyone who resists a woman's right to choose the nature her birth does all women a disservice. We should get excited about spreading information and educating about birth so all women can make intelligent decisions, not seek to limit their choices because we feel we know which choice is superior.
Julia
P.S. And finally, let's remember who loses the right to choose, here - only those who can't afford a private OB. Again, that really bothers me.