Originally Posted by MeganW
that's funny both our families think I'm lucky to have a guy that stands by me doesn't beat me or abuse me and takes good care of our dd.
Funny what people that get a peak behinds the scenes think vs people that don't have a clue what is really happening here.
My grandmother would die if I left him she just spent 20k on our wedding.
While I understand your frustration with posts that suggest leaving, and can completely relate to the familial dissapointment after shelling our that much money on a wedding, the first part of your post raised a red flag...
"I'm lucky to have found a guy that stands by me doesn't beat me or abuse me and takes good care of our dd."
There is SO much more to a healthy relationship than not being beaten or abused. That shouldn't be an overwhelming reason to stay. There are plenty of men out there who will not only not beat or abuse their wives/girlfriends/SOs, but will also contribute emotionally, physically, and mentally to a healthy household. Please don't sell yourself short.