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post #21 of 37
Cindy,
I had to stop and say I am so sorry that you lost your Mom. My Mom is really sick right now and we almost lost her in October. She is young like your Mom. I just wanted you offer my support and to thank you for writing your story here, it took a lot of strenth.
post #22 of 37
I am so very, very sorry, My mother is dying( cancer) and it is numbing.

Hold on to all the memories, share her with your sweet baby. Talk to her daily and remember her love.


Blessings mama
post #23 of 37
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post #24 of 37
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
post #25 of 37
s s s

I'm so so very sorry for what you're going through. Death is only sad for those left behind - that's why I'm terrified of losing my parents.

I have absolutely no advice for you - except maybe hug your baby a little tighter, and know your mother lives in you and what you pass on to your children of her.
post #26 of 37
So sorry,
post #27 of 37
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by granolamom View Post
I am so very, very sorry, My mother is dying( cancer) and it is numbing.

Hold on to all the memories, share her with your sweet baby. Talk to her daily and remember her love.


Blessings mama
Oh honey, I can't even imagine what it must be like to know you're going to lose you're mama. I remember being so scared when mine was in the hospital.

Lots of Love.
post #28 of 37
Thread Starter 
Such a bad day today. My baby is vomiting and has diarrhea, I feel like poop. We've been trying to nap all day long. Its been working for the baby, but every time I lay down I just keep thinking about my mom. I'm so tired of not sleeping.

My husband is understanding, but I think he's going to kill me if I don't let him go to the office soon. He's been working from home.

I just can't help it. I feel frantic and overwhelmed when I think about him going to work and leaving me and the baby alone all day. I'm afraid I'll break down and upset the baby. Especially now that the baby is sick and I don't have a mom to ask what to do. I also used to go upstairs and hang out with my mom whenever he went to the city. Now its just a constant reminder that she's gone.

I miss her so much sometimes it feels like I can't breathe. I'm afraid to re-read her letter to me.
post #29 of 37
I am so sorry for your loss.

The letters you shared are beautiful.
post #30 of 37
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Originally Posted by CindyCaz View Post
Such a bad day today. My baby is vomiting and has diarrhea, I feel like poop. We've been trying to nap all day long. Its been working for the baby, but every time I lay down I just keep thinking about my mom. I'm so tired of not sleeping.

My husband is understanding, but I think he's going to kill me if I don't let him go to the office soon. He's been working from home.

I just can't help it. I feel frantic and overwhelmed when I think about him going to work and leaving me and the baby alone all day. I'm afraid I'll break down and upset the baby. Especially now that the baby is sick and I don't have a mom to ask what to do. I also used to go upstairs and hang out with my mom whenever he went to the city. Now its just a constant reminder that she's gone.

I miss her so much sometimes it feels like I can't breathe. I'm afraid to re-read her letter to me.
post #31 of 37
Oh Cindy - I am so, so sorry for your loss. I linked her from your sig and found myslef in tears reading the wonderful letter your mother wrote to you and your beautiful words remembering her.

She sounds like a wonderful person and an amazing mother. Just remember that she will always be with you because she is a part of who you are and the mother you are.
post #32 of 37
I'm so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine your pain.
post #33 of 37
HolisticMama,

If I were your mommy..and I'm about 9 years younger than your mom....I would put you in my car and drive you immediately to a Homeopath.

I would have you tell the homeopath everything you have been through.. and I would ask her to help you.

She would give you a remedy. and then in about 5 weeks you would return and possibly have another remedy.

the remedies cost about 7 dollars.
The office visit will probably be about 100.

Please find a homeopath and take yourself there... you have been in shock and if your body is in shock that long it takes even longer to recover...and by the way it is all normal.

btdt (after my father died).

hugs
post #34 of 37
For all of you who have lost your parents or those whose parents are sick. Love, strength, blessings and hugs to you all.

DC
post #35 of 37
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by Tracy View Post
HolisticMama,

If I were your mommy..and I'm about 9 years younger than your mom....I would put you in my car and drive you immediately to a Homeopath.

I would have you tell the homeopath everything you have been through.. and I would ask her to help you.

She would give you a remedy. and then in about 5 weeks you would return and possibly have another remedy.

the remedies cost about 7 dollars.
The office visit will probably be about 100.

Please find a homeopath and take yourself there... you have been in shock and if your body is in shock that long it takes even longer to recover...and by the way it is all normal.

btdt (after my father died).

hugs
Tracy, I'm not sure how to respond to this. First of all "If I were your mommy" hurts beyond measure. I'm sure that was not your intent, but all the same. I can tell you right now that my mom would never put me in her car (she didn't drive) and take me to a homeopath (she didn't believe in them and knows my stance on medication because of the horrible allergic reactions I get.)

Second, there is no homeopath or medicine that will make my mother's sudden death better. I don't see how a $7.00 remedy will bring my mom back... I'm not in shock or real disbelief. I'm just plain unhappy and depressed that she's gone. I miss her everyday. I am seeing a therapist to help me through, and my family is supportive.

Again, I'm sure you meant no harm in your post, but felt it necessary to let you know that sometimes telling someone who recently lost their mom what you would do if you were their mom can be more hurtful than good.
post #36 of 37
Thread Starter 
I want to hear my mom's voice more than anything right now. The urge was so strong I called her cellphone just to hear the message.

Sometimes I just miss her so much. I miss (almost) everything about her.

I've been trying to get through the best way I know how.

I know that time will make things...easier, but there's nobody like your mom.

Love you mommy.
post #37 of 37
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