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[autumn_faune]

Update: birth and marriage both going down the tubes. Will someone please kill me now?

[eepster]

[Microsoap]

(((!!!hugs Galore!!!)))

Originally Posted by autumn_faune

Update: birth and marriage both going down the tubes. Will someone please kill me now?

Stay adamant about this! If you cave and circumcise and he changes his mind later on... and you'd most certainly regret the minute it's done, you'll be SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO P***D OFF AT HIM, you barely be able to forgive (live?) w/ yourself, AND OF COURSE (((HIM))). And since you can't reverse this operation to its full intact state after it's done, leaving him intact and NOT making any hasty decisions is the best.

I wish you could make him see you're actually making it easier for HIM in the long-run, too!

Congratulations on the joy of having a boy-- despite this ordeal, which HE made happen, not you-- it's a wonderful gift (boyhood). And good luck.

http://www.icgi.org/medicalization_o...ion.htm#Page_1 (P.S. This travel through the history of circumcision should point out how CRAZY it is, the "reasons" for circumcision, it should be a wake-up call into NOT doing stupid things for reasons unproven at the time and ultimately laughable [the reasons, not the issue] in hindsight!)

[vermontgirl]

Originally Posted by autumn_faune

Update: birth and marriage both going down the tubes. Will someone please kill me now?

I hope that everything is ok. I am not exactly sure what you mean by marriage and birth going down the tubes but I really hope that you hold your ground. I was lucky that Andy agreed with me about circ but if he hadnt, I would have left him before I let anyone hurt my child.
Please update us. I know that I am really concerned and I hope that he sees things your way.
Was your baby born yet?