I will TOTALLY post pictures.
Let me just say that the kids room is pretty small- and shared by a 5 and 3 year old. We only have two bedrooms and it has no closet. It messes up VERY easily. It also collects laundry to fold it has the door to the back which is where our laundry room is.
About the drawers that have "thrown up" (lol!), that would be my fault. Ask my husband. I for some reason cant seem to get in the habit of loading a drawer properly - and then I never close them entirely. Then, in the morning rush- what you see is what happens.
I have my son help clean up- he does a pretty good job- I never shame him- but I do tell him that what doesnt get put away gets put in a bin for two weeks. (thats only when we are on top of things- I'd never make him clean up a huge mess by himself). But I want him to take care of his stuff and learn to put things away- skill I was oobviously NOT taught.
I wasn't made to do anything as a kid. I was the only kid in the house, and I think my parents felt like I wouldnt do it right, so they just did it for me. So- here I am- with 3 kids and trying to teach themto do the right thing.
I have to say- my parents are great- they just kept me in a bubble- they know now that they screwed up! My mom comes over and say "I'm so sorry I never taught you to keep house" I tell her- ok, thanks- now pick up a broom.