Originally Posted by Mamma Mia
This is victim blaming talk. This person should NOT be a therapist. PLEASE do not see them any more.
Peeping is a type of sexual assault and those who do it are convicted of sex crimes. What your SS did was totally inappropriate regardless of where it happened or who it happened to. This is sexual predation. The therapist that called this "normal" behavior should be stripped of their license. Seriously, please please please consider reporting this therapist to your state's licensing board. Please.
My 12 year old autistic son acted slightly inappropriately (he didn't know what he was doing) about physical boundaries with one of his younger sisters. We had him at the grandparents until we could get a plan in place with his therapist for her safety (to make sure he didn't really do something wrong at a later point). His safety plan is very strict, and I don't think what he did was half as wrong as what your SS did. If I were your DD, I don't think I would even feel comfortable with him in the house. I know my DH would back me 100%. He has a mother that was molested, and he has no tolerance for predatory behavior.