Originally Posted by Jezzy
Good luck to you Fishie Kisses
nice to see you here again!
So, what did you do different to get the ewcm? I drank gallons of green tea, lots of guiaffesen, epo, and flax seed oil, I did get a little, but not as much as I think would have been good.
Did you do anything different this time?
Y'know what's weird...I have done ANYTHING different!! I am very blessed because even with the Clomid I get tons of EWCM....I am very grateful for this! I have been drinking lots of grapefruit juice the last several says because I know it helps the uterine wall, and with implantation. But other than that....nothing!
I just wanted to add for you...as difficult as it is, try to ignore the fact that your sis is pregnant. Easier said than done, I know. But dwelling on it will only upset you more, and stress will NOT help you get pregnant! I remember when DHs ex got preggo this time. It was NOT planned, even a little and she had JUST started dating the guy. I was devastated because it was the same time that DH told me he was ready to NTNP. But since I wasn't ovulating, obviously nothing happened on it's own. But I was crushed because she (at the beginning) was talking about she wasn't sure if she wanted to keep it, blah blah blah. She did end up keeping it, they got married, and from what I can tell are very happy. BUT, the point is, that I was initially determined to get pregnant so that she wasn't getting something that I
wanted! Now she has already had her baby....and so have most of the people I know....so when I do get pregnant, it will be all about me!! The attention can be on me, and I don't have to share it. I know that sounds a little selfish, but that's how I feel. The saying "Always a bridesmaid, never a bride"....well I always throw the baby showers, but I've never received one! Had we conceived the first month of trying I would have been due right before my mom's wedding....then I would not have received much from family because of paying for the wedding. So, i just keep thinking that the farther away from July I get for a due date, the better it will be for ME and MY family!! It's selfish, but it gets me through.
Sorry about my novel, but it kinda seems like something a lot of us needed to hear right now!