Well, that's the thing. My dad kept saying about how they were going to get a hotel because they knew they were a "disturbance" to me (and I *really* wanted to say, "Then don't come!" but didn't). But, if they have to stay at a hotel, it'll go down in history as the rudest thing I ever did to them; it could cause big problems.
It's just SO selfish of them to not even ask and just do it. Man, am I PO'd.
I so specifically asked my mother not to come for Christmas. I told her it would be a big deal to me; that I just wanted us to have a Christmas as a family and that we would hold the freaking presents until they got here AFTER the baby was born.
I don't even know how long they'll be here...
I love my parents, I really do. In fact, we see them every single month. I moved more than 2000 miles away, but we still go there every month. I want my kids to know them...I just wanted to have some time/space for my little family before the big changes coming. We weren't supposed to go there for Christmas last year, that's what DH and I had agreed on, and then my grandmother passed away and we felt obligated. So this year, we got pregnant (on purpose with a late Dec due date) so that there couldn't be any travel.
Ok, so from one already grumpy frustrated pregnant mama to another, if I kill them, think anyone will blame me?
The only upside I can see right now to this is that I won't have to sit through dinner with my MIL and BIL tomorrow alone - I really was dreading that. At least my dad will be there and he can talk to *anyone* and make conversation about *anything*.