Oh, and last night DH and I had another baby food argument. SS(10) was over at the time. I gave Philip a banana to play with and he was licking/eating(?) it and really enjoying it. AFTER taking several pictures DH starts going on about how we bought rice cereal and he would feed it to Philip. I said, why don't you try it first, then? He responded: I'm not going to eat that crap, it tastes like cardboard!
SS answered: OH! You won't eat it, but you want to feed it to Philip?
I totally won, AND I got SS on my side. It was funny.
Today DH is like "I liked our argument last night. Arguing is fun."
OMG, how will I live with this man long term? I'm going to die at 35!
On a less happy note, SS told me his mother (who bf him for 2 years, but only bf her second son for 6 wks, and is now SAH and bfing her 3rd son, who is a month old) sometimes *has* to use formula because she doesn't have anymore milk, i.e. "feels empty." It makes me sad, because she obviously got it right with SS. We don't have a relationship, so I don't think I can send her any info, though I'm tempted. I almost wonder if she doesn't *want* to bf him full-time. I hope that's not a horrible thing to say.
In response, DH said "doesn't have enough milk! she nursed you for 2 years!" and SS replied, jokingly, "maybe I took it all!"
Ok, off to work.
ETA: Please, I hope I am not offending anyone who feeds / fed their kids rice cereal! I don't mean to-- I just thought DH's lack of reasoning was funny.