You really just need to focus on "you". I hope that all of that does not put a damper on you!!!! You can di it!!!!
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1/2/07 at 7:55pm
You know there are times when we just want a physical thing and that is perfectly okay.
If you meet someone that rocks your world....you wouldn't be interested in anyone else anyway.
Sometimes these little 'flings' can help remind us of our womanhood, our sexiness and our attraction and attractiveness with someone else. If it is something that works for you....go for it and enjoy it for exactly what it is.
I slept with a gorgeous guy that seemed to be a good father, person, etc. and he had had a vacectomy. I am pregnant. Clearly, I wish I would have used a condom but we definitely discussed our histories. He says it isn't his. Well, it is. There it is. I have been in anxiety/shock/grief phase but have now recovered. I hate to go through a pregnancy and birth alone with no money, no support, etc. But, I have friends.