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post #1 of 6
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I found this compilation of quotes gut-wrenching.

http://www.circumcision.org/mothers.htm

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When he was first born there was a tie with my young one, my newborn. And when the circumcision happened, in order to allow it I had cut off the bond. I had to cut off my natural instincts, and in doing so I cut off a lot of feelings towards Jesse. I cut it off to repress the pain and to repress the natural instinct to stop the circumcision.
Jen
post #2 of 6
I can relate to the last one. When I looked at his penis I instantly thought "I should not have allowed this to be done." That was me. I am so sorry that I allowed that to happen to him. I have written an apology letter to him. I have cried so many times over it. It should never be allowed to happen.
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post #4 of 6
nak

i can completely relate, unfortunately. i was so young when my first was born, when my parents told me that my son had to be "done", i never questioned it. my father had to physically drag me down the hall away from my son when i had to hand him over. i could hear and i could FEEL his screams inside my body even though my parents took me several floors away because i was so upset. i have lived with those screams haunting me every day of my life since then but only now do i know that my memory of it is NOTHING compared to what my precious baby endured. it will be a long time yet before i will be able to forgive myself for that day (and it's been over 11 years now).

i'm just glad that i was aware enough this time to make the right decision and keep my new little one intact.
post #5 of 6
OMG, I can't even imagine....I am so thankful that my son and I were spared the tragedy of circumcision.
post #6 of 6
This one is just soooo sad http://www.circumcisionquotes.com/avery.html Poor mama and poor little boy!! Thank goodness our ped is intact-friendly and would never suggest circing!
I still feel guilty just knowing that I hadnt bothered to research this decision at all and that I would have let it happen. I would have been in the room though and I am sure that after actually seeing it done I A) never would have gotten it done again and B) would have felt extreme guilt for the rest of my life. It just shows though how ignorant people can be and how this really needs to be talked about. People dont like to think about it, but the fact is that no one-NO ONE-said a word about circumcision to me until I was in LABOR! I hadnt thought about it because no one had even mentioned it. If I had thought about it, I would have researched, just like every other decision I made. Too bad I hadnt been lucky enough to have one of the circ articles before he was born (I read mothering through the last half of my pregnancy). I just thank god that medicaid doesnt cover this awful procedure in our state! Thank you thank you thank you!
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