I am a glutton for stress, what can I say??

[BirthFree]

Please no one be upset if you are ttc (any lurkers or you)... I mean no offense...

DH and I dtd on Sunday and I feel like today I'm ovulating... . Oh goodness...

It's only the second time we've not used protection since Gray was born, but of course it was really not good timing. My cycles have been WAY freaky since having Gray (and normally they are right on), after ovulation they are SUPER short so I'm not sure that if we even would get pg there would be time for a baby to implant as they are a week shorter than they 'should be'. But I think this issue won't be happening again.

I don't think I even want to tell DH, he'll panic and there's nothing we can do at this point.
Lord the possibility is freaking me out - and we were even possibly talking about permanent birth control though I don't feel good about that for health reasons.

ANYways...
I'm going to be anxious now for a while.
SIGH - that was just so stinking silly... but it'd be a *week early* if I really am ovulating so can I plead sheer not knowing??

[veganf]

Oh...my...gosh. Better you than me!!! I know I can't handle the morning sickness again for quite a while.
But I've definitely had that feeling before that I ovulated simply because we DTD! My midwife happens to agree too. :
Can't wait to hear the outcome of this!

[BirthFree]

You mean you thought you were ovulating because you dtd? Was it immediate after or the following few days? It's been 2.5 days and the feelings started late last night and then today.

Yeah... I love my children SO SO SO much, but um, I wanted to be done. I know the obvious answer to that is "then don't dtd without protection!!" but it's (ovulation if it is indeed that) a week early (in my defense... because I need one ). I'll update if there is one.

In the meantime I'll just worry. Bah!

[taradt]

Hope it works out how you want it. and am so glad it isn't me

tara

[veganf]

Originally Posted by BirthFree

You mean you thought you were ovulating because you dtd? Was it immediate after or the following few days? It's been 2.5 days and the feelings started late last night and then today.

Yep. Scary, but I think our bodies can do things earlier if they're signalled to do so (ie. sex). Anecdotal, of course, but for both my midwife and I it's the only thing that makes sense!!