My DD is.... wow - 42 months now - haven't thought it out in months in a long time.
and I am the only one from my circle of friends (except one mommy I met here at MDC) who still nurses at all.
At around 22-24 months I considered night-weaning because I didn't sleep through most of my pregnancy with DD and she was/is very high needs. We were still nursing every hour or so during the night around that time, but when I looked into how to night-wean on Dr. Jay Gordon's site, it seemed like too much work. The Pantley book was too much work. I could hardly function during the day, let alone at night, how was I supposed to keep track of sleeping and nursing habits by the hour when I would stumble into the doorframe on my way to the bathroom after DD was done nursing? Thankfully, DD's final teeth came in shortly before her 2nd birthday and I was able to finally get sleep in between 2-3 nursing per night.
I think I actually started getting 4-5 hours between nursings at night around 2-1/2 or so. But that seems to fluctuate a lot depending upon stresses at home, nightmares, etc. And most of the time, she still nurses at least 6-8+ times a day. She just really loves milkies.
Sometimes, DH suggests I try to wean her, but I just find it easier to nurse than to fight it. I do set some boundaries now. Sometimes, I'll offer her food because if she's hungry, she'll nurse all day and not eat. If she actually is hungry she'll usually have some food and nurse later.
I still NIP all over town, though I avoid doing it in the car. Not that I am shy about it, but DD is big enough to pass for 4+ years old and it's just not that comfortable for me to nurse all squished into the car.
Also, I sometimes ask her to wait a few minutes if I am in the middle of something or if I am really grouchy or feeling touched out. But most of the time, she gets her milkies when she wants. So after all this
I guess all I am saying is that no, you are not alone. :P
I have noticed that I get much better sleep when she sleeps in our bed. She has her own double bed (which we purchased so that I could nurse in her room with her). Now she usually wants to sleep in her bed, but wants me to stay in there with her. I'd really like to sleep with DH if DD is in her own bed. He's still OK with the Family Bed though too. I just tend to kind of bounce back and forth between my bed and DD's if she's in her bed and wants milkies.
And slightly OT here, but is this just me, or does it seem like the only time night nursers actually sleep through the night is when mommy can't sleep for some reason? I don't get it.