dumb "friends"Please don't tell me I'm being ridiculous when I'm fastidious about hand washing and keeping sick people away from my baby, RSV kills little babies like mine.
This made me crazy. We chose not to do the RSV shots (don't flame me) and kept secluded and made everyone who did come swear they were well and wash with soap water and purell if they came in. Baby was only "family held" for a year as well. But still one "friend" came to bring a meal and walked in with 3 sniveling clearly sick with cold kids into my living room. I retreated to the upstairs and had my husband get her out quickly. Didn't eat the food either! I should have known. This same UA violation of a friend came to my daughter's funeral with her kids in flipflops and shorts and tshirts. I was stunned the unfunny joke in the family now is that she said 'hey kids lets stop at a funeral on the way to the pool!' I really can barely talk to her any more.