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post #21 of 28
I was just complaining about this last month! I made a sling for my niece who is 4 years old for christmas and wanted to get her a baby to go in it. I went to target and could only find ONE doll that did not come with a bottle, and it was a cloth doll, so more like a stuffed toy. Even those monkey and kitten dolls come with bottles now, I saw!!! :
I know that some parents must use bottles, but why not sell them seperately from the doll so parents have a choice? I'm so not looking forward to this battle when DD is old enough for dolls....luckily mommy has to undo all the packaging and the bottle can just be "left behind"
oh, and not really lactivism, but have you seen all the dolls that come with every baby container imaginable??!! They come with a swing, bouncy chair, carseat bucket, pack n play....its crazy. I use some of these items sometimes IRL, but the message is being sent to our kids that it is normal to leave your children in one container after the other all day. I guess its not bad enough we are told to neglect our babies, we have to teach them to neglect their dolls too.
post #22 of 28
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Originally Posted by oursweetboys View Post
O.K., I'm going to be the voice of dissent here. I don't view baby dolls with bottles as "promoting formula". My DS had a doll that came with a bottle and it really didn't bother me. It rarely got used and I even have a picture of him "nursing" the same doll! It's precious-I wish I could dig it up and post it. Let's face it, there are plenty of women out there(and here on MDC) who HAVE to use bottles for various reasons. Not every mom has the ability to stay at home and exclusively breastfeed(meaning no bottle). There could very well be EBM in the doll's bottle if you choose to look at it that way. I realize that intoducing a bottle too early can interfere with the BF relationship but bottles can be used while also BF without issues. I am a SAHM and both of my boys still used bottles at times that I was out and unable to BF. There are lots of adoptive moms who have no choice.(relactation doesn't always work and isn't always an option) I don't think bottles are "evil" as what is presumed here in this thread. I realize this is the Lactivism forum, but I guess I don't see this forum as being only for those who choose to BF exclusively without using bottles. Alright, I'll get off my soapbox now.

~Leslie
I wasn't able to BF my son for a variety of reasons (depression, lack of support, blah, blah, blah). However, I did pump for a year, and had to supplement with formula. My daughter has been a dream nurser. Latched from the get go and going strong at eleven months. My problem is almost all the dolls I saw had bottles with them. I got an overwhelming urge to scream. It was like saying baby equals bottle.

nak
post #23 of 28
I use bottles as well, because I WOH, but I still am irritated with the whole baby/bottle association. In our culture, bottle-feeding (usually formula) is the norm. It's like the symbol of baby-feeding, and that needs to change.
post #24 of 28
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Originally Posted by mamabearsoblessed View Post
I have thrown doll bottles away. Though my dc have one that they use in their kitchen area as a condiment container .
this cracked me up, because dd1, after being exposed to doll bottles at a friend's house, promptly started to use the ketchup and mustard bottles from the play kitchen with her baby dolls. and this is a kid who would go on strike to bottles as an infant, refuse to eat (when i was at work) for a good 6-8 hours. she stopped nursing her dolls (bears, cats, trucks...), too, which troubled me way too much, : like they'd been weaned, poor things.
post #25 of 28
DD got 3 dolls for xmas. All of them her very first doll. ... Well it was all within a few days of eachother ok? My grandma gave DD a small doll, painted face softer plastic head and feet. No bottle!!! Then my brothers (ages 13 and 10) get her a doll. hard plastic, make boat loads of HIGHLY annoying music when you squeeze any hand or foot, and the eyes open and shut (ok- that part just wigs me out) and the same for the 3rd doll (not a duplicate, a SLIGHTY different one :eyeroll: )

Anyways, my brothers IMMEDIATELY pop the bottle into the dolly's mouth and go "See? This is how you feed a baby!!!!" And since I was in the presence of a BOATload of relatives I hadn't seen in over a year I kinda let it roll off. BUT when we got home I showed Lethia how babies are really fed. That was hard for me because it had only been 3 months since Las died and I stil had some leakage from my breasts. But DD was HOOKED on that concept. And now I 'nurse' her dolls, carmel kitty, doggy, periwinkle the kitty, dr. suess sneetch, and horse!! She'll only kiss and hug them though.

Ah- and as for the bottle- DH grabbed them both when we got home and CHUCKED them into the garbage and yelled "Score!!" (and he's not even a sports fan)
post #26 of 28
My DD always threw the bottles away herself and then promptly nursed her "babies." Even now, she's the greatest 13-year-old lactivist in the world--she congratulated her science teacher for the pix of breastfeeding in the "family life" section of her science book and proceeded to explain why formula is not as good as breastfeeding, even though most of her classmates didn't see anything wrong with it, and one even thought that breastfeeding is "gross." I love my DD!
post #27 of 28
here is one: http://www.alternet.org/story/45372/

Each 16-inch cloth adult Amamanta doll has genitals and pubic hair, and the mother doll features breasts that can be snapped onto the baby doll's mouth to help reinforce the importance of breastfeeding.

snaps on nipples would be very handy!
post #28 of 28
I wanted to get James a cabbage patch doll so instead of getting the (cheaper) newborn one with a bottle I'm getting the toddler one. Now if I could find a bald one so it looks like James! LOL
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