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"Bury Me Standing" by Isabel Fonseca. All I can say is WOW. It is a work of non-fiction and is on the subject of the Roma (primarily in Eastern Europe). It is absolutely amazing- the writing is fantastic (informative, but not stuffy- and she includes her personal impressions, which are all very thoughtful and interesting) but the subject... is fascinating. She includes the history of the European Roma as well as tackles modern (as of 1995, but they are still timely) issues. It gracefully covers a summer she spent living with a Roma family to current Roma political objectives, the Holocaust to weddings. I have to say, I was really unaware of the complexities, fundamental cultural beliefs and difficulties facing the Roma. They are so frequently romaticized, and we truly know so little about this group of 12 million people. Isabel Fonseca is honest about the culture of the Gypsies. She presents the good with the bad in a way that is fair and the reader comes to understand the complexity of the situation.

It is not always a "light read"- it would be a disservice to not explore the grinding poverty, discrimiation or the Holocaust when speaking of the Roma, but it is a book with a "quick flow" and is intelligent and earthy and I couldn't put it down.

If you are looking for a book that will make you think, will learn something from, but will keep you reading instead of making dinner (my husband has made dinner the past 3 nights while I read!) this one will do it!
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This book is highly popular with expats here in Czech Republic, especially after we see how the Roma are treated here.
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I'm not surprised. She was not kind to the post-communist governments and it doesn't take a lot of imagination to think that the horrible conditions of the Gypsies there continue today.

The word that she used that kept surfacing again and again was that they are largely invisible. Despite violent (modern) pogroms, deplorable living conditions, 70% illiteracy, a catastophic infant mortality rate, and rampant criminalization they are essentially invisible- in policy, in social programs, in history. Not even ignored- just never considered. I found this especially disturbing because you would be hard-pressed to find someone who had NEVER heard of a Gypsy. They are vibrant in folklore, imagery, dress, and culture (our own, I mean! There are images and reminders of them everywhere!). Though they are everywhere, but somehow, they are systematically overlooked or stereotyped (if they are given a thought at all)at every opportunity.
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Thanks for the inspiration to read this book! I've been meaning to read it for years--ever since I spent a summer in Romania when I was in college. I spent a lot of time in this one Roma villiage, and was very much impacted by that experience. Other friends who traveled with me read it and recomended it, but you've provided fresh inspiration to pick it up. Thanks!
post #5 of 12
That was one of the most fascinating books I've ever read, and I highly recommend it. The parts about "The Devouring" (Holocaust) are particularly compelling, considering how it has generally been overlooked.
post #6 of 12
The books sounds fascinating I just put it on hold from our local library.
post #7 of 12
I should probably read this book. I'm woefully ignorant of my own ancestral history.
post #8 of 12
This is one of those nonfiction books that both well-researched and written. And it's both very interesting and moving. I read it quite a while ago and recommend it.
post #9 of 12
I'm from an immigrant family. When I was growing up, my grandpa used to tell me that if I didn't behave, I'd get kidnapped by gypsies. : Probably the same thing he was told growing up.

I've wanted to read this book for awhile, it is always checked out of my library! I might have to just buy it!
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You might be interested in this film about the world's largest Romany settlement:

The Shutka Book of Records
post #11 of 12
Thanks for posting this, I'm going to add it to my amazon wish list.
post #12 of 12
library list! thanks
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