My stepson will be 12 in a week and has been nothing but a problem child for the ten years his father and I have been together. He has had problems in school from Kindergarten and they are only getting worse. We just moved to a new school district to try to give him a new start but within two weeks, I am already having to go to a confrence. He has been very disruptive and rude to his teacher and already has late work. We all wanted him to use this to try to make a fresh start and have friends, he causes so many problems, most kids don't want to hang around him. I do not know what to do anymore, he adds so much stress to the house that I feel that I can't deal with it. It is to the point that I don't want to see him or talk to him. His bio mom is out of the pic for a few years (in prison), so we have no where to send him. I have had a bad year, I have had two mc's and am currently still in my first tri with twins. I am trying not to be stressed out because I can't do that to myself but it is immpossible at this point. I am going to have to try to give his teachers answers that I don't have on why he is like he is and what we all need to do to help him. He doesn't want help, he likes causing problems, I don't think he is happy if people arn't mad at him. I need help bad! I am to the point of wanting to take my daughter and go away, but I don't know what we would do without my husband. Any help will help.
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1/24/07 at 11:29am