homebirth rules!
I had both my daughters at home, the youngest was born 1/24/03!
I live way out in the country, almost an hour to the nearest hospital. I discussed the emergency situation with my midwife.
Part of my confidence stemmed from her confidence. She had been to over 600 births in her career, and that didn't count all the ones she was not the main attendant for. She had been doing this for over twenty years. She told me that if there was a need to go to the hospital, it would be an obvious thing. In other words, she would know in plenty of time, before it got to the point of being "an emergency".
Confidence is everything when it comes to homebirth. You must not only believe in it intellectually, you must know it with your heart.
I knew in my heart that each child would be safe, because I would be safe, surrounded by only my own things, my DH, and my midwife, and one other attendant.
Both times were bueatiful and wonderful, something every mother should be able to cherish the memory of.