DD is just over 3-1/2 years old now. Sometimes I wish she would wean, but I don't plan to try and push her because she seems to really need it emotionally and we don't do dairy.
Some days I feel really touched out still and might ask her to wait a few minutes until I can be in a better frame of mind, but I think that's better for our relationship than letting her nurse when I would be resenting it the whole time.
A few weeks ago, I thought she might be going to weaning herself, but after this week, I'm pretty sure she is not. I have mixed feelings about the whole thing. I know when she does wean, I'll miss it. But at the same time, sometimes I am really ready to have my body back.