*lurking*
My dd is 8 months old now and we STILL don't have her card.... she doesn't even have a number yet! We've tried 4 times to get this taken care of. Between Social Security and Vital Statistics, paperwork keeps getting lost or misplaced. We filed our taxes yesterday and we not able to claim her.

: We have to file an ammendment when we finally do get it... and I'm guessing it'll probably be in April.
You don't have to have the card. SS may actually give you her number if you go to the office (they will not do it over the phone). You might want to bring her birth cert. and your ID of course. Good luck!