February Law of Attraction - Page 2

[hannahi]

So far this week:

My parents' cat who was very sick last week is better today and was actually playing

My husband got called for an interview for a promotional position within his company--and I know that if he's not offered this position, it's because the universe has something BETTER in store for him.

Still working on manifesting a better relationship with my MIL (which is important because she's living with us at the moment, and taking care of my 9-month-old while DH and I are at work), a slim, fit body, and a positive cash flow!

[~Nikki~]

I'm here. Feeling a little lost right now, actually. Last month didn't go so well. I'm in that slumpy part of the winter where I've had about enough of the darkness and short days, and am falling into a depression. Spring cannot come soon enough.

Any tips on pushing through slumpy times?

[Eli's_mommy]

Originally Posted by ~Nikki~

I'm here. Feeling a little lost right now, actually. Last month didn't go so well. I'm in that slumpy part of the winter where I've had about enough of the darkness and short days, and am falling into a depression. Spring cannot come soon enough.

Any tips on pushing through slumpy times?

I get some seasonal depression myself. If you can steal away some time to yourself, maybe try and take a bath and read something really...easy. Just an easy fun uplifting read. I like the Sweet Potato Queens books. They're not at all deep, but they'll put you in a good mood. The thing about books is you read them throughout a period of time, you can look forward to it, and if it's a good book, hopefully it'll keep you in a good happy exciting mood. I'm a book dork in case no one noticed.



I am currently manifesting my new house. We are house hunting to buy our first house, and I know it will show itself to me soon, and it will be perfect. It will be in the perfect location, it will be the perfect price, it will be the perfect house, and it will be mine.

I am also manifesting more time for dp and I to spend together. With a little guy, we have a hard time getting together and spending alone time, and I feel it has a very adverse effect on our relationship.

I have been manifesting a lack of debt- and that is coming into fruition. It's just a matter of less than a month now and I'll have absolutely no more debt

The last thing I want to manifest is a 60k a year salary. It's not too much to ask. It's almost raise time. Oh, and I rock and deserve it

[*Devon*]

Originally Posted by Amris

But you certainly can limit it to only getting a raise or getting an old boyfriend back. The question is... why would you want to? Especially since maybe your old boyfriend isn't the best you can get. Did I say that out loud??

(you did and you're right!!: )

You're completely right, of course... I was sort of kidding but not really. I just feel like a lot of my brain space lately is taken up with negative thoughts and feelings about the Boy situation and I wish I could flush them out. I was thinking the exact same thing about trying to control him I will focus on my good feelings and not my annoyance. I don't want him back, I just want him to admit he misses me and he was stupid (I ended the relationship because of his behavior)... I guess I should ask for closure?

And for the work thing, it's not more money... I'm a teacher, so good observations mean I get to keep my job! Also, it means my bosses aren't up my butt all the time. In the long run, I want to start asking for something else in my life (maybe going to grad school), but I figured I'd start small and short term.

I sort of thought you were supposed to be really specific, so that's why I was specific about the observation and stuff.

So...... I guess I should start ordering up my soul mate, huh? I made a very specific list a while ago, so I'll start focusing on that and we'll see what happens....

[KoalaMama]

I'm here! Nice to see some new 'faces'! I'm guessing this newer thread isn't as intimidating as the 120 page one.

This week I manifested a power outage. Yep. Spent some time worrying about just such a thing, and then started asking for a push to get more focused with the kids during the day and control the tv requests a little more. Eh, the universe listens! Good news is I manifested the power coming back on in fairly short order - after a nice walk and a coffee.

Now I'm working on getting my vibration back up in the face of some family yuck. January was full of 'issues' and I'm really thrilled at how I handled most of it! But this week has brought me on the down side of the rollar coaster, so I'm looking forward to that climb back up to the top. Yippee!!

Love to you all! <smooch>

CC... I so can't wait for your CD! Make sure you get a downloadable version available for us stuff-less crowd, ok?

[MsChatsAlot]

Originally Posted by ~Nikki~

I'm here. Feeling a little lost right now, actually. Last month didn't go so well. I'm in that slumpy part of the winter where I've had about enough of the darkness and short days, and am falling into a depression. Spring cannot come soon enough.

Any tips on pushing through slumpy times?

Perhaps you could create sunny days for yourself. Even if the sun isn't shining...you could work on 'feeling sunny'.

[darwinphish]

Nikki ~ Can you afford a tanning salon? I am the whitest girl in the world (and have no problem with that! ) but I get S.A.D. and so I go to a tanning salon WEARING SUNSCREEN on my face, hands, and chest and do 7-9 minutes. Just once a month during winter and I walk outta there feeling like a million bucks! It's like you carry around summer in your skin for a week. Bliss!

Speaking of a million bucks... I have a question for you wise mamas:

How have you released resistance to money? I have SUCH contempt for wealth and the wealthy that I have trouble imagining myself anything but poor. DH is a real estate agent and has the potential to make lots of money, but deals keep falling through. I feel like I'm the cause. : Everytime I see a big house, fancy car, boat, cash, gold jewelry - any symbol of wealth, really - I think, "that's disgusting". And it's not JUST a knee-jerk reaction - I do think that kind of wealth in a world where there's so much need *is* disgusting. If I had millions of dollars, I wouldn't want any of those things and I'd want to be rid of it ASAP. Sure, I'd buy stuff. But not those things I find so outrageous. I know, it sounds so judgemental even as I write it... but that's the feelings I keep having.

So I'm caught in this loop of judging wealth while wanting to attract it - which of course won't work at all. So the visualizations that involve those symbols just are completely counter productive. I'm trying the prosperity game but can't think of much to buy.

How can I attract "money to pay rent" and "money to buy healthy, organic food" and "money to give away to those in need" and "enough money for US" without digging up those feelings?

[MsChatsAlot]

Originally Posted by devonc

You're completely right, of course... I was sort of kidding but not really. I just feel like a lot of my brain space lately is taken up with negative thoughts and feelings about the Boy situation and I wish I could flush them out. I was thinking the exact same thing about trying to control him I will focus on my good feelings and not my annoyance. I don't want him back, I just want him to admit he misses me and he was stupid (I ended the relationship because of his behavior)... I guess I should ask for closure?

When you KNOW that you deserve better, you will reflect back on this relationship. You will be grateful for everything you learned from it, you will cherish the wonderful times together, but you will be ever so grateful that you made the choice you did...because you know in your heart you deserved more.

When you know that you are worthy of a mutually healthy, happy & loving relationship, you will no longer care, nor dwell, on someone who didn't get that.

When you write that you want him to admit he msises you and was stupid...it's like you're looking for confirmation outside yourself that you are spectacular! KNOW INSIDE THAT YOU ARE SPECTACULAR...and those who get it will be co-creating amazing relationships with you...and those who don't won't.

[MsChatsAlot]

Originally Posted by darwinphish

How can I attract "money to pay rent" and "money to buy healthy, organic food" and "money to give away to those in need" and "enough money for US" without digging up those feelings?

Do you believe that you and your family deserve to have the rent paid? Do you believe that you deserve to eat healthy, organic food? Do you believe that it is important to give to others?

If so, then imagine how it feels to do all those things. See you and your family THRIVING on that healthy, organic food. Imagine how great it feels handing someone money who has nothing. Imagine the feeling of security for yourself and your family when you KNOW the rent is there.

If you aren't yet able to feel those things for yourself...here is a little tidbit thanks to Esther Hicks.....
"My Financial Decline Will Not Elevate the Impoverished." "You cannot get poor enough to help impoverished people thrive. It is only in your thriving that you have anything to offer anyone. If you want to be of help to others, be as tapped in, tuned in and turned on as you can possibly be."

If you don't have extra money....you can never help anyone else! How dare you be so selfish to keep money away from those who really need it!!! Manifest some money already!!!!!!

[AnoriensMom]

Zannalyn, now that i am up past $10,000 daily deposits in the game, I am planning on saving enough for a great down payment on a house. then I can focus more on stuff to buy for the house. I think you mentioned solar panels, what a great idea! I too have a very difficult time once it gets this high in the deposits. A vacation at Atlantis sounds ideal!


ok, I am dying to know now....what is a woo woo wand. someone mind explaining?

Annikate, thanks for mentioning that "new beginning II" book, never even heard of it, but I will search for it right now. I am currently loving Feel It Real! by Denise Coates. The little snippet that I read today that helped me alot was-

The Five Elements of your only job in life

1. Become aware of how you are feeling, positive or negative.
2. Focus on thoughts that make you feel better.
3. Feel the joy of your desires before they get here.
4. Do something only when you feel inspired from joy.
5. Have fun.

The Law of Attraction will take care of the rest. I promise!

[Amris]

Originally Posted by darwinphish

...snip...

I have SUCH contempt for wealth and the wealthy that I have trouble imagining myself anything but poor.

...snip for length....

My response is to everything, not just what was quoted, but I wanted to give an idea of what I'm speaking about here.

The attitude that you spoke of, where it's so difficult for you to see wealth when there is so much lack....

It refutes the entire concept of us as creators. If we create our wealth, we also create our poverty. You seek to deny our nature as creators by seeing poverty as NOT being a choice, but something instead thrust upon us.

Your contempt for those who have created wealth is perhaps a reflection of your contempt for your own creative powers and the uses you have made of them (or not made of them).

[CrunchyCate]

Here is a challenge I have: My ex-husband is a toxic person. I made him move out, because he had a girlfriend (after years of abuse and infidelity), but he is the one that is hostile to me. He is always calling and yelling at me (twice in the last week- once, because our son was acting up on his weekend, so that must be my fault, and the second time, because he didn't do something he was supposed to do for our daughter's school, so it was also my fault.) I am trying to figure out how to attract what positive I can out of the relationship with him, and stop having him lashing out at me and verbally abusing me? Any thoughts?

[Amris]

Originally Posted by CrunchyCate

Here is a challenge I have: My ex-husband is a toxic person. I made him move out, because he had a girlfriend (after years of abuse and infidelity), but he is the one that is hostile to me. He is always calling and yelling at me (twice in the last week- once, because our son was acting up on his weekend, so that must be my fault, and the second time, because he didn't do something he was supposed to do for our daughter's school, so it was also my fault.) I am trying to figure out how to attract what positive I can out of the relationship with him, and stop having him lashing out at me and verbally abusing me? Any thoughts?

The Secret reminds us to find things about someone that we appreciate. This will attract more of the same into that relationship.

Focusing on those things which bother us will attract more of that into our relationship with that person...

When you focus on your own happiness, and someone comes home in a bad mood, you will literally find yourself in a different place from that person.

[CrunchyCate]

Originally Posted by Amris

The Secret reminds us to find things about someone that we appreciate. This will attract more of the same into that relationship.

Focusing on those things which bother us will attract more of that into our relationship with that person...

When you focus on your own happiness, and someone comes home in a bad mood, you will literally find yourself in a different place from that person.

That makes so much sense! Thanks! I might even have to write it down to remind myself. I did notice that I found myself getting upset and hung up on him and made a conscious effort to let it go, so that was nice.

[~Nikki~]

I'll read and respond to some of these after the kiddos are in bed. But I just got home from picking them up at daycare, and may have had a successful manifestation.

Right now, DH and I are trying to get out of our lease. We aquired a house a few months ago (gee, wonder how that happened!) and are anxious to move in. It should be ready for us by the spring. Right now, DH and I are living about 500km apart, due to his job. It sucks. So we want to get out of our lease. If we can break our lease, I can afford to quit my job, and we can all be together. Unfortunatly, our landlord is being a major witch about it, and won't even entertain the idea, even though we were nearly evicted last month because we've been having trouble making ends meet.

I was so stressed out when I found out about this on Tuesday. We were hoping to give our 60 days notice, and found out we couldn't. I wanted to throw up, I was so upset about it. So on the bus ride home (my manifestation station, it seems) I threw the following statement out, over and over: "The situation with the house will be sorted out within a week."

Today, when I picked up the kids, their daycare provider said to me "I have friends moving here in a couple of months. The husband will be here this month to scout for a house, and they're hoping to move in in April. I told them about your house, and how much you pay, and they say it sounds perfect. Find out if you can sublet!" We were originally hoping to move out on March 31st, so this would be ideal!

DH has left a message with our landlord. We're keeping our fingers crossed that it works out!

[Annikate]

Nikki - About the seasonal depression . . . When I lived in Upstate NY I would get depressed on OCtober and not feel good again until May. No joke. I moved. To the Sunshine State. BUT . . . knowing what I know now, if I had stayed there I would have started taking cod liver oil, lots of it, and eliminating sugar from my diet. These things have helped me w/ppd immensely. I have other tips if you're interested. PM me. I know how yucky it feels.

darwinphish - we were hoping you were w/Oprah! I don't have issues around money. I'm grateful that I don't. It's just not something that I worry about (I made a conscious decision to do this a long time ago before I got married.) I do, however, sometimes find myself thinking things like you said, "ughh, what a gaudy HUGE house, who would want to live in THAT?" or "Even if I HAD all that money *I wouldn't do this or that."

I'm only now becoming aware of it and I don't like it. Something else I'm working on!

[Annikate]

Originally Posted by CrunchyCate

That makes so much sense! Thanks! I might even have to write it down to remind myself. I did notice that I found myself getting upset and hung up on him and made a conscious effort to let it go, so that was nice.

That is a great feeling isn't it? You're taking care of yourself!

[MyLittleWonders]

I'm here (with squirmy babe on lap).

~Nikki~ - for SAD, I also recommend cod liver oil (one with the naturally occuring vitamins A & D - Twinlabs makes a very good and inexpensive one) and cutting sugar. SAD signifies your body's need for those vitamins, so supplementing them, especially in the winter through cod liver oil (which will also give you a big omega 3 boost), will definitely help.

I started my LoA journal yesterday. I bought a 9" x 12" sketch pad at the art store. On the first page I wrote out some of the lyrics to "Unwritten" and sketched in color a window with amazing sunlight streaming through. One thing I've been doing each time I visualize what I want in terms of our house is to imagine it bathed in warm, golden, sunlight. One the back of that page, I started a gratitude list until ds#3 woke from his nap. Well, yesterday evening I was driving with the boys out to Costco to meet up with dh, and the sun was starting to set. It had been raining off and on for two days, and the clouds were finally breaking up, allowing the sun to shine. OMG the colors were amazing, and you know what ... *everything* was basking in the most amazing golden glow! It was beautiful (I couldn't stop going on about it to the boys). The sky was still dark in the east, the trees looked especially green, and there was this warm, amazing golden glow to everything as we drove. I was like, "The Universe is SOOOO cool! Thank you!" It gives me shivers thinking about it now. In some ways, I almost see it as confirmation of staying here ... kind of like, the Universe was reassuring me that I have that warmth here; I just need to tap into it and acknowledge it rather than missing the forest for the trees, yk? Anyways ... thought I'd share.

Oh, and I'm totally excited because I have a 30 minute reading with Charmarty (Charmaine) tomorrow night ... and I went and scheduled the consult with our homeschool curriculum creator for next Tuesday (and my mom is watching the boys for me while I do it as it's an hour phone call). I feel like I'm getting some clarity and coming up out of the funk I had been in for so long.

Oh, and one last thing, as I'm buzzing higher just typing all this out. When we moved in to our house almost 2 years ago (our oldest was not quite 4), I told dh I really wanted some type of backyard set for the kids (at that time there were two boys; now we have three). We didn't want a plastic one like the Little Tykes, but felt the really nice Rainbow ones were too expensive. Well, I've been unknowingly attracting this playset for the better part of the last two years, and now it's being delivered and built *TOMORROW*!!! We splurged (called it a hs'ing investment) as it was a lot of money, but we used our home equity to pay for it, and I know how we will have it payed off in the next 12 months! I'm so dang excited! (I'm even allowing the boys to watch a bunch of TV today knowing tomorrow they'll be outside playing all day!) YAY LoA!!!

[Arduinna]

Well I thought if I jumped in at the begining of the month I'd be able to keep up with the thread LOL. But almost 40 replies the first day? sigh.

[MsChatsAlot]

Originally Posted by Arduinna

Well I thought if I jumped in at the begining of the month I'd be able to keep up with the thread LOL. But almost 40 replies the first day? sigh.

And they say we don't need our own sub-forum!?!?!: