If you are comparing the man you are dating to your X, then you are more than likely not over X.
In all honesty, it also is not fair to the man you are dating.
Take some time for yourself. There is not reason to rush into dating.
I can see how what I wrote or how I wrote it would indicate that I'm not over my X, but actually I feel that the comparisons, to a certain extent, are positive. He really played a large role in me developing my strong ideas and preferences about what I want in a partner.. and despite my sometimes cynical mindset that there's not many men out there that will meet those standards, the guy I mentioned actually seems to. I am still kinda cynical because I think most people put their best behaviour on display early on and that their true selves can be either pretty close to that or very, very far from it and that only time can tell, but so far, to my total suprise, he's starting to win me over and we are developing a connection and some genuine chemistry. I even made out with him a little. Which, for me, is a huge step since I've gone on multiple dates since the break up and haven't felt comfortable with or any kind of interest in even kissing anyone. I'm going to continue taking it slow and being self aware... but I'm kinda, sorta starting to like this guy.