Originally Posted by MommyTo3
Somebody help! I have been separated since April, and just not meeting ANY, not ANY men. I have to start putting that on the top of my list. It is not just happening "by accident" as my mom thinks it well. Perhaps, if I had a day job, it would. I am basically at home with my kids during the day, then work as an SAT tutor in teens' homes evenings and weekends. Not meeting them at Wal-mart or even the roller rink! I really want somebody, right now. It feels as though I am basically wasting away in the middle of nowhere, and if I stay here, am going to die celibate!
i agree what others said to you but aslo, you probably should start trying to meet people and just dont jump into a relatioship with the first guy you meet. i dont know how else you can get started other than to simply try it and really pay attention to your feelings.
as to how, do something new . take a class. vounteer somewhere men might be. what about a book club or if you like to write, a writing workshop? alot of communites have thse sorts of things happening for free all over the place... try ot get a regular sitter so you always have saturday nights off so you are open for a date if it comes up, but use that time to go hear music at a nice place ot something like that and to go out with girlfriends. you really do just have to form a social life and meet lots of differnt people. if you have ever been in terestd in acting, dance, volunteering at an animal shelter, whatever, just try somethig new if you arent meeting people in your normal routine....