I am 37 weeks and planning an UC. Although, everyone still thinks we have a midwife even though the last time she came for a prenatal was in November. I have been flat out lying to everyone. Since DH and I are the only ones that know the truth, should we keep it that way. I really hate lying, especially to our parerents, siblings, friends... I know that if we tell one person the truth, then we will most likely have to tell everyone and then they will all know we were lying, not to mention they will start hassling us to know who "checked" the baby. What do you all think? Should DH and I take this one to our grave? Of course, I would like to tell the baby the truth and I can't imagine telling it that he/she was born through an UC, but then saying, "Don't tell anyone because we lied to them all and said you were born at home with a midwife in attendance." I just need some suggestions.
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2/7/07 at 12:54am