I was talking to an old friend yesterday.. She asked me if I had thought about homebirth... (WHich sorta threw me, cause she's well childless 1st of all.. ) Any way.. I said i didn't feel comfy with it with a c-sec for 1st ds and a fairly high forcepts delivery with ds2, but i know women who have and loved it...
Anyway.. Last night i was talking with DH about it.. I asked how he would feel if i wanted to have a HB... He said that would be ok if that's what i wanted.. He wanted to know how it would work... I told him we would have a midwife, and she would be our "catcher" sort to speak, and that sort of thing.. He said that would be fine...
Now i don't feel comfy with a HB, but i feel sooooo greatful to have such a supportive dh in this.. Admittedly he isn't the most supporrtive during labor, or delivery... ( Which is why my friend is going with us this time) But if i wanted to he would totally support that.. Most likely to the horror of his and my family...
I just thought i would share this with women who would understand just how wonderful this guy I married is...
Warm Squishy Feelings...
Dyan
Anyway.. Last night i was talking with DH about it.. I asked how he would feel if i wanted to have a HB... He said that would be ok if that's what i wanted.. He wanted to know how it would work... I told him we would have a midwife, and she would be our "catcher" sort to speak, and that sort of thing.. He said that would be fine...
Now i don't feel comfy with a HB, but i feel sooooo greatful to have such a supportive dh in this.. Admittedly he isn't the most supporrtive during labor, or delivery... ( Which is why my friend is going with us this time) But if i wanted to he would totally support that.. Most likely to the horror of his and my family...
I just thought i would share this with women who would understand just how wonderful this guy I married is...
Warm Squishy Feelings...
Dyan
