Are you done?

[veganf]

Are you done having more babies? If not, how many more would you like to have?

[Lact-o-Mama]

Most often I *think* we're done........BUT, I do fantasize and know for certain that if we had 1 more that would definately be it. So, that makes me wonder if we should have just 1 more, then we'll feel more sure in our decision to not have another :

[beansavi]

Now that dh and I are officially outnumbered 3:2 by kids, I am not just done, I am SO done!

[mamamilkers]

Um, who's going to vote 6 or more?!?! :

Oh yes, we're done, btw. DP is getting the ol' sniperoo!

[peilover010202]

I don't know. Some days dh says he's done, some days I think 2 feels right and even catch myself saying "when ds2 is in school, I'm going to go back..." Then I realize that I'm unconsciously planning our future with 2 children.

It's weird though because dh and I always had 3 in our minds and I was always thinking I'd be fine with 4.

We'll see. It's really hard for us to think logically with so little sleep.

[mrs rockstar]

We're definitely not done but I may be done biologically. We'd love a bio son but I don't know if I want to do the pregnant thing again. If not, we'll definitely adopt. Hell, we're probably going to adopt at some point anyway. regardless of future bio children.

[JenMidwife]

i voted 1 more, but maybe more... we're going to reevaluate after 2

[taradt]

we are done DH gets his snip next month.

I would have loved 5-6 kids but DH was set on 2, and due to age and compications this is it.

tara

[SummerTwilight]

Who knows? I would like one more soon and maybe no more, maybe 2 more in a few years.

[Robynee]

I voted two but we just plan on keeping on 'til we get a girl.

[2 in August]

We are done. Dh got his snip back in Dec. It just feels right for us to have 2.

[my_sweet_tears]

I am no where near done! but the next one(s) will be much later in my future

[daniedb]

I love having two, but I have really wanted three for a long while now. I am totally open to changing my mind and being content with my two, and it's still so early to see what it's like. We have 2 years to decide!

[the_lissa]

I put other. I want 1 or 2 more.

For those who are done, do you feel done? I am worried I will never feel done.

[Bay Area Babe]

Maybe 1-2 more. Maybe also adopt. We're open.

[JenMidwife]

for those of you who want more soon, are you using birth control now (other than bf) or are you just seeing what happens?

[the_lissa]

Using condoms, but I haven't got my cycle back yet,.

[SummerTwilight]

also using condoms but no cycle yet. Plan on stopping condoms this summer and seeing what happens.

[veganf]

Originally Posted by Robynee

I voted two but we just plan on keeping on 'til we get a girl.

That's us too. Except that if the 4th is a boy we may adopt a girl or two. We are considering putting in adoption paperwork while pregnant next time.

As "fun" as it was having my first two 15 months apart, I think ideally I'd like to wait 3 years before having a 4th. That said, we're not using much in the way of birth control at the moment. As soon as I get my cycle back I'll use the Babycomp and timed abstinence most likely...as long as a toddler doesn't start pushing random buttons again!!!

[mamamilkers]

I completely and totally feel done. It's just something I know.