When you spend 10 minutes bawling in the shower trying to decide if you should go pick up food in the day, or go in the evening with dh...
And later on, when you've decided to go in the eve, and you wonder if you should just ask dh to go on his own so you can get the kids to bed on time, you worry that if he drives on his own, he won't be as carefull as he would if you were with him, and get into an accident on the highway, and get all worked up and bawling because it would be your fault for sending him alone, and how would you visit him in the hospital because the car seats were in the van....

When your appetite is bigger than your dh's... and I don't mean just for food.

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