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post #41 of 54
that is horrible. i am so sorry to hear it.
post #42 of 54
Ohhh whitewax, I am soooo very sorry, I hope you can find some peace somewhere and soon!!
post #43 of 54
Take care of yourself mama. I hope things get better for you. I have been down this road before. Dh and I are still married but it took years for us both to do our growing up. I really recommend counseling. It is good to have someone from the outside looking in to see what isn't working in your relationship.
post #44 of 54
not in you DDC but just wanted to extend my love and support to you My DP and I have and do go through some rought patched and didn't live together for a while this summer. It's not easy but you too are a STRONG woman and BEAUTIFUL mother. Whatever happens you will make it. Remember what you are going though now may feel : but you certainly will not be in that state of mind for ever!
post #45 of 54
Please, please let us know if you need anything.

I'm sure many of us (myself included) have free long distance and would be happy to give you a phone call if you need extra support that way.

Are you taking care of yourself?

Can someone help you with your DD if you go through some of the really rough feelings?

I'm so terribly sorry this is going so hard for you.

post #46 of 54
I am so sorry. Please, if there is anything we can do, let us know. :
post #47 of 54
I'm so sorry mama. Please feel free to vent/cry/yell here whenever you need to. You can PM me anytime, I've been through divorce (from DS's dad) and it isn't easy. You need support. Take good care of yourself and take all the help you can get.
post #48 of 54
So sorry to hear this. Let me know if there is anything I can do. Hope that you begin to find some peace soon.
post #49 of 54
Thread Starter 
Thank you ladies....

We are going to go to couples counseling while split.... it may seem odd but it may help or we may realize that we are just better off with out eachother as partners (relationship wise),

Either which way I am planning on moving in with my parents. I know it will be a bit stressful, but I think living here would be harder on me mentally and I really feel like this is the best bet. My parents are still looking around for another, bigger house that would give us all some more room. This will also make it possible for me to go to school and not have to worry about how I'm going to survive.

Still stressed beyond belief and I'm going to have to get rid of my dog My dad wont have her there and although DP offered for her to stay with him, it's really not right for her. She's a Chihuahua and needs far more companionship than he has.... not to mention he doesn't like her all that much. Sweet of him to offer but still not right for her.
post #50 of 54
Oh WhiteWax...I'm so sorry! But at least the emotional roller coaster ride from h3ll is maybe almost over? I mean, it's not the situation you deserve or the one you hoped for, but at least now you can plan a little and find a new balance? I wish you were close enough to hug (so big zen cyber hugs here), or that there was some way we/I could help with the stress and the healing...

I'm gonna light a candle for you if that's okay....either way, hang in there! You are a strong, amazing, wonderful, loving, and capable woman and mother. And you and your little ones are going to be okay.
post #51 of 54
Thread Starter 
Originally Posted by wombatclay View Post

I'm gonna light a candle for you if that's okay....
Wombat I would really appreciate that.... maybe you could even wait for the full moon on saturday?

Oddley enough I just dont feel like I have the strength on my own right now... I cant seem to find my little well inside to draw it up from... thank you so much!


post #52 of 54
WhiteWax- I am glad you are making plans you feel are in the right direction- staying with your parents and going back to school sound like postive steps. I am sending you good vibes to find the strength that lives in you. You will survive this!
post #53 of 54
I really hope couples counseling will be helpful for both of you. It's good that your parents are there for you. So sad, though! And giving up your dog, too. I'll be thinking of you and hoping you find the strength you need to get through all this. It's there--I'm sure it is. You can do it, mama.
post #54 of 54
I'm so sorry, mama. One step at a time, and you'll make it through.
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