Thank you ladies....
We are going to go to couples counseling while split.... it may seem odd but it may help or we may realize that we are just better off with out eachother as partners (relationship wise),
Either which way I am planning on moving in with my parents. I know it will be a bit stressful, but I think living here would be harder on me mentally and I really feel like this is the best bet. My parents are still looking around for another, bigger house that would give us all some more room. This will also make it possible for me to go to school and not have to worry about how I'm going to survive.
Still stressed beyond belief and I'm going to have to get rid of my dog
My dad wont have her there and although DP offered for her to stay with him, it's really not right for her. She's a Chihuahua and needs far more companionship than he has.... not to mention he doesn't like her all that much. Sweet of him to offer but still not right for her.