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I'm only addressing the first post.

My 5yo dd asked this the other day. Her daddy is a cop.

Here's what I told her:
Daddy has a gun so he can come home to us safely every day and night. Daddy hopes and prays that he never has to use it, and we always hope and pray for the same thing. But, if a criminal every tries to hurt or kill Daddy, he has that gun so he comes home safe and sound. Guns are not toys and people should never just shoot other people. But police officers have to protect others and themselves so they need their gun.

Then we talked a lot about why we don't ever want Daddy to have to use his gun. It was an important conversation.

My dh really really never wants to use his gun. I hope he is never in a situation when he has to. But, I also love my dh and you'd better believe if his life is ever in danger, I don't care what he does, I want him to come home to me and our little family.

Thanks for the question, it's an important one for kids to ask and parents to answer. Also, I don't know if your local police dept has an outreach program, but my dh is always happy to talk to children about his job, why he does it and of course why he has a gun. Kids should never fear cops, cops are their friends.

Kimber
Wife to a great cop
Mama to 2.5 great kids

Kimber, thanks for your reply to this thread -- it makes a lot of good points.

Give your H a slap on the back for me, I too pray I come back safely each day/night to my little family and that my g-u-n stays in the holster. I'll add him to my little pre-work ritual of muttered words.

post #142 of 144

guns...

"To answer your question of what they are fighting and dying for... I think it is to restore stability - to help the "new" Iraq get on its feet. Just because Saddam is gone doesn't mean all of his followers are."
----Please, please look further into this issue. We are not occupying Iraq to help them get their feet on the ground. We did not attack Iraq because Bin Ladin attacked the World Trade Centers. We are not there preventing attacks from Saddam's followers. We had stakes there when Saddam was still on our payroll.

"I've reread your saga of being tear-gassed at union marches and watching your father get arrested. I suspect that your father's experiences were quite a few years ago and that yours were likely linked to illegal activity, perhaps participating in a riot? Perhaps inciting violence or attempting to create anarchy? Blaming the police for their lawful actions that were in response to your unlawful actions doesn't make a whole lot of sense and isn't going to curry any favour."
----While I don't know anarchamama or her story, I'd like to mention that people still get tear-gassed and arrested at peaceful marches and protests today. It is not uncommon. It is not always lawful but even when it is, why would that make it right? There have even been several occasions when the police have incited riots. Look at the events of The Tomkins Square Police Riot in 1988, the WTO protests in Seattle in 2003, a protest for a meeting with the American Leaders Summit last month in Quebec...and there are many more.


Cops have guns because bad guys sometimes have guns. Fight fire with fire.
----This is not why police were initially permitted to carry guns. I believe that most individual police are good people with good intentions to keep "bad guys" and "criminals" from the "good guys" and "upstanding citizens". Police as a unit, though, violate human rights everyday. We like to picture them with their gun protecting people. This is an ideal. It is not always a reality. I see several posts talking about other countries and their more relaxed gun laws and using these as examples. If we're going to do that, let's also mention those other countries in which children are killed by the government and the military and the police who are supposed to be "protecting" them. I am not saying that bad police in general as individuals are anything more than upstanding men and women wanting to protect innocent people and make the world a just place. I've got family who are police and friends who are police and I dated a policeman...this is not about that. I believe the state has an agenda that the innocent people who protect that agenda and its elite interests are not informed about or aware of.

Someone said this thread has been turned into a cop-bashing forum. -Obviously some people have had good experiences with police and some have had bad. All should be able to give their two-cents.
That said, I am not recommending teaching your young child that the government has monopoly on deadly force and that it can be power-happy. I also would not "tell my son that the police have guns because they work much better than lollipops and rainbows in situations where a very dangerous person is putting other innocent people in harm". It is not a black and white issue and so I will not teach it that way.
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i think now is a great time to discuss good and bad, right and wrong. the bad guys out there have guns, thats why cops need them. seems pretty straightforward to me.


1ht
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Not being disrespectful...not sure what you mean

Are you saying that the people who have guns who aren't police are bad guys? Or that the only reason police are issued guns is to protect them from bad guys with guns? And you mentioned discussing good and bad and right and wrong but...is that a discussion opener or sarcasm? Again, I am not antagonizing...I'm just very interested in this discussion and very curious about people's thoughts...
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