We really make an effort to all eat together, it doesn't happen every night but usually 5 out of 7.
Growing up, everyone ate together at my dad's, but not at my mom's. I remember liking meal times better at my dad's.
I voted "Everyone eats together". For the most part this is true. My dh just started working shift, however.... and we can't wait till 7:00pm when he gets off Day shift to eat. Those days he eats later than us. When he's on night shift we can usually still eat together (since we try to eat between 5:00 and 5:30pm).
We all eat together as a family (even dress up a little- khakis for the boys, skirts for us ladies), because it is really important to my husband. Once the kids get older, and more involved in activities, I think it will be difficult to do.
My kids are still so young that I mostly have to be up running around when they're eating. My youngest still needs to be spoon fed. We're all in the same room at least. I work hard to have all of us eat a Shabbos dinner every Friday night, but it's hard. As soon as everyone is feeding themselves we'll all be able to eat together, yippee!
We all eat together at lunch since dh goes to work in the afternoon until early morning. My ds usually eats by himself while I clean up. I eat with him for part of his meal, but I sure don't take as long as he does. He can take up to 90 minutes to eat a meal. He loves to eat
our goal is everyone together. Sh is rarely home until late (10-11PM) but whenhe is home he eats with us. I eat with everyine unless the baby needs to be nursed etc. . . the kids just get more food down when I am sittinghtere with them.
My husband stops at the grocery store after work and gets his meat for dinner, then comes home, grills it and eats it. I fix supper for myself and my daughter and we usually eat together, although if she isn't hungry then I eat alone.