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Well I started getting contractions yesterday at about 5pm. The stayed steady for a long time. They were about 8-13 mins apart and lasted an average of 45 seconds. My midwive's partner came to check me at 10:30pm last night and I was only 1 cm, 50/60 effaced and -1 at that time. She recommended a warm shower and to get some rest if I could, that she believe I was still in "prelabor" until I reached 3 cm and was contracting regularly. So I took a warm shower and finally fell asleep at 1:30 am and was woken up regularly with some more intense contractions. I continued waking and sleeping until 4:30 am when I could no longer sleep anymore and they hurt too much to be able to sleep thru them. So I stayed up and by 630 am I was hungry and made myself some eggs for breakfast. From 630-8 am the contractions came faster... 3-5 mins apart at times and lasted from 45 seconds - 1 minute. Then at 8 pm I found myself EXTREMELY groggy and very tired and somehow I passed out in bed. Woke up at 10am and my contractions had slowed down and were lasting only 30-45 seconds and 8-10 mins apart again. My midwive's partner came again to check me at today 12:30pm and found me just about 3cm dialated, 80 % effaced and about 0 station. So I thought....okay I am getting somewhere. (mind you this is my second baby so I have been assuming it would go faster than my first daughter, which lasted 36 hrs from first contrax to birth.) Well since my check by her today I have found myself so VERY VERY tired all day. I have taken 2 naps since the midwife came and it seems that my contractions are farther apart now. Like after each nap they slow down even more. They are now (at 950pm) about 8-10 mins, not anymore intense than this morning and they are shorter now, about 30-45 seconds. I am getting worried and anxious. I am hitting the 29th hour now and I am curious if I am going to go like this forever??? I wish I could of had some energy today, but I was just too tired to try to walk or try anything that may help bring baby down or bring on better contractions. I just was sleeping or lounging all day today. I dont know what to think now as we have just 7 more hrs till this labor is just as long as my first, but with my first I was much farther along by this time. I guess I just wanted to vent off my anxiety and nervousness. I dont really have any questions...just curious if anyone knows what may be going on with me??? I am nervous, worried and anxious and dont know what to do?
Thanks for listening.
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i'm going for induction tomorrow, and i'm anxious, nervous, emotional and worried too.... hope we'll get through this soon... good luck to us!
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laura

i understand, my contractions picked up yesterday around 3.30, then got stronger and more frequent til around 10.20, when i took a shower. then they calmed right down. i had been ready to go to the clinic and i'm glad i didn't! they woke me up again during the night a few times and were quite painful this am but dh drew me a bath and that calmed them down again. i'll sit on the ball more today...i might try a walk as well. i have no idea if i've made any progress.

with my first my water broke so they wound up inducing me when i stopped progressing at 7 cm. so that labour was quicker too! i'd rather not do that again.

hang in there!
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Oh Mama! You are doing great. Every labor is so different, and I think you are doing awesome to listen to your body...sleep and rest as much as you want....I promise that baby *will* come! Shower and eat and pamper yourself as much as you can. Your efforts will pay off. It sounds to me like you are doing everything right. I think it is great you have been able to sleep....you'll have the energy when you really need it.

Long labors are hard, but sometimes baby needs them.

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Every labor is different. What your body may be telling you is that the baby's positioning may be slightly off from typical, you may be needing to sleep & rest more and that once you "get going", you may go fast If you have a desire to move things along, try a double breast pump or call your mw to see what she recommends. You are going to do just fine!!! My first labor was 43 hours from water breaking to in my arms & my second was just minutes shy of 25 hours. Hang in there!!
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Everybody facing labor now or soon: keep in mind that labor progresses in six ways. I've only heard 3 mentioned so far, so know that those other 3 might be happening too. Of course, today is my due date and I haven't felt so much as a twinge, so I guess everybody gets their own hurdles to leap. Good luck, and just try to rest. If you want to be proactive, but are low on energy, try sitting on the birth ball. Good luck and hang in there.
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Everybody facing labor now or soon: keep in mind that labor progresses in six ways. I've only heard 3 mentioned so far, so know that those other 3 might be happening too.
Are you talking about the emotional signposts of labor? I used to have an article about these and I can't find a single thing about them now. :
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I mean in addition to dialation, effacement, and station, there are three more ways to progress. My brain is spacing on the terminology, but I know that one of the more important other ones is the rotation of baby, and this is the one that takes the most time and is the likely cause of a long labor. In order for the baby to put enough pressure on the cervix to really open it, baby has to be in a good position, so all these contrx are probably working to get him/her down in there real good.
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I mean in addition to dialation, effacement, and station, there are three more ways to progress. My brain is spacing on the terminology, but I know that one of the more important other ones is the rotation of baby, and this is the one that takes the most time and is the likely cause of a long labor. In order for the baby to put enough pressure on the cervix to really open it, baby has to be in a good position, so all these contrx are probably working to get him/her down in there real good.
Are you talking about the OP position???
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