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Dd will be three in May. Her allergic symptoms are generally fairly minor - mild redness in the diaper area, runny nose, dark circles under her eyes - when it's bad it's hyperactivity/irritability, and it's very clear to me that it's something she's eaten. But she's not badly affected by it, at least not visibly, and my primary motivation has been because I'm afraid of doing her body harm by feeding her foods to which she's allergic. There are no known food allergies in the family, though I suspect there are some undiagnoses sensitivites on dh's side.

But I don't know how much longer I can do this. I've nailed down oats and am convinced of wheat/gluten and milk. I think she can tolerate cheese in small amounts but reacts if she eats too much.

There are about a dozen other suspicious foods, and trying to feed her and dh (who is diabetic and does not eat carbs at all outside of a few veggies) on half the income we used to have, while tracking all of this is driving me nuts. We can't afford to have her tested, so I have to figure it out on my own. Food aside, she's already a high-energy kid with fair and sensitive kid, so...I'm very frustrated with trying to tell what causes what.

So...am I doing her harm beyond suffering through symptoms? Am I making it more likely that she'll stay allergic to these foods? I feel like she's about to outgrow all of it anyway and here I am banging my head against the wall...and denying her food she likes as well, and not giving her enough calcium to boot!

Aaaaargh. Thanks for listening.

Jude
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i hate to tell you this, but maybe, yeah. my allergy doc strongly advised me to be extremely careful with foods that i *suspect* my daughter is reacting to via my breastmilk. this is So hard b/c i myself am vegetarian and gluten intolerant. but that's why i have to be extra careful for my li'l gal, because i can't stand the idea of her dealing with what i deal with. the veg stuff is my choice, but the gluten thing- it's tough sometimes but i am so much better than i was...i was SO sick. for a long time. i know how hard it is to figure out what the heck you can or can't feed your babe. i am still really in the dark abotu so much but when i talked with my allergy doc about my baby, he really warned me (in a great way, he is awesome) that a little bit here or there while my baby's digestive system is still evolving can have serious consequences later. i should also mention that my older sister had bad allergies as a baby and no one knew what was happening with her until she was two years old...meanwhile, she was being fed lots of foods that she reacted to constantly. honestly, i have to say she's been affected in many ways due to this...it totally has been a reminder to me and an inspiration of sorts to be careful...but yeah i know it is SO hard...i am hoping it will pay off when later on it will be easier- and my gal will be 100% healthy and able to eat whatever she wants!!! so...
good luck with this process!
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