People all parent differently. Everyone's idea of good parenting is different. Even on these boards. There are people I have met who think I am a way worse than bad parent - even to the point of negligence coz I didn't vax dd. Still others who think I'm a terrible parent coz I pick up dd when she cries & I carry her everywhere. I dread to think what they'd do if they knew she sleeps with us
I personally don't feel it's my place to judge someone for being a wohm. I only just escaped having to do that & it was close. I now am a wahm, which leaves me with no time to clean the bathroom. But at least I get to stay at home with my baby & not have to put her in childcare. I admire woman who do go out to work. I think that is also a sacrifice. I would be miserable having to leave Saffron.
Actually that is a lie about the bathroom. I truly tried to clean it today - honest
. Saffron got all the shampoos & toothpaste off the shelf & tried to open them. Then she tried to climb in the shower while I was cleaning in & stick her hands down the drain bit. So I gave up. At least the h will be partially happy to be home since the bathroom is partly cleaned. He can then go & get on with working up a glistening manly sweat building his garage
Sorry but this is cracking me up coz he really is building a garage & everytime he comes home he can never do anything vaguely helpful since he's gotta do something else to the garage. Then comes in complaining about how hot & sweaty he is - lol!